Hoping girl 2
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I can see it baby!!!! Ooh how exciting!!!
Ladies, sorry for the pity post and because it's not ttc, but I've just posted this on one of my fb groups and someone wasn't very nice commenting on it so I thought I'd come and rant here because a) I knew you'd understand and b)I can trust you to tell me if I'm being irrational/hormonal about this...
Im struggling today. Had my first midwife appt yesterday and she was lovely. Explained how worried I was after my two losses and because I'd been feeling really sick and now only a bit queasy and she sympathised, saying she'd had a mc too and asked me if I was having a private scan. Told her I'd had one and everything looked perfect so it had made me breathe a bit easier as I knew risk went down slightly after seeing a heartbeat. She then said that it was good, but to not be too happy as 'the scan only shows that the baby is alive at that point in time and can't guarantee what will happen in the next few weeks, for all I knew the baby could have already died that evening and I wouldn't necessarily know'.
Now don't get me wrong, I know all of this, I know scans aren't guarantees but I thought this was a bit insensitive. And now I'm really worried again, which I'm sure is not what she set out to do. I dreamt last night I was bleeding I really hope it was as a result of what the mw told me and not by subconscious telling something is wrong
Feeling sad and anxious...
I see it!!! How it is the start of yourJust took this with smu and I swear I can see something!