Yeah I hear you Helen. Life is so stretched now, need more hours in the day to do everything we want and need to do, just in order to function but also feel like we are achieveing something and doing the right thing. You've had a great 2 years off with Ollie and nurtured him in the ways you wanted to so you can tick that off sa achieved for the time passed. Going forward it will be hard as you'll have the working dimension too but we know, we have to make sacrifies to promote the bits that are most important.
At the same time the kids are growing, all the time growing, And we want to make the memories like you say. 2 years have flashed by for me, esp this second one. Might give up work to enjoy the third year properly as surely its school not long after that!