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[tristansmommy]

No I have to go in next week and have it checked again but it says it happens alot in pregnancy. It is still a scary thought though. I accused my husband of cheating and giving me.shyphillis. He swore he hasn't so I.think it was a false.positive. I am so sorry about your test results,I don't know why doctors are.so.insensitive when it.comes.to ttc it is such a hard time and no one wants to help. So are they y going to.do the ultrasound so see if.anything is going.on in there? I don't know alot about the levels and what they are suppose to be. Just don't give up

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Sorry I haven't updated recently. I have been incredibly busy with school, and I just got a new job starting today. I really hope your hubby didn't cheat and that it's just a false positive. How horrible to have to question your husband like that because of a stupid false test! Have you gone back to the doctor?

Yes, they are doing the ultrasound to see if there are fibroids or anything else abnormal that would be causing the bleeding. I am still bleeding, and I think I'm becoming anemic now. I'm so exhausted and no amount of sleeping helps.

 

[msilverbow]

Hi girls. Sorry I've been absent. I was out of town again, staying with my sister-in-law (& nieces) while my brother was out of town taking his structural engineering licensing exam. Sometimes spending all that time with the 3 little girls makes me thing "what am I thinking trying to get pregnant?! This is crazy!" and sometimes it makes me think "I can't wait". The newborn is so much work and SOOO sweet at the same time. And on the plus side, I'm getting to know what I would and wouldn't want in baby gear if I ever do get pregnant!

This month I ovulated "early", thank goodness! It was the day after I went out of town. My husband and I had sex the morning I left, which was the day before O, so I don't know how good our chances are. Do you think that could be an implantation dip in my chart? On other people's charts it only ever seems to be a 1 day dip, and mine is 2, so I'm not holding my breath.

Fefe, I'm sorry about all this crap that you're going through! That's so frustrating! When I got my blood work back, my doc left a message saying it all looked normal, and to "try the pee sticks", like I haven't already been doing that for months! But I requested copies, and I don't think my estradiol (E2) is normal - it's 85, and all of my googling says that up to 75 is normal, and above is abnormal. I'm not sure how much my doc knows, since she's a family doc, not a specialist. We agreed that if we haven't gotten pregnant by January, we'll go see a specialist.

Tristansmommy, that's so weird about the syphilis test! Our bodies do the weirdest things when we're pregnant. I'm actually a little afraid to be pregnant because I'm afraid of feeling all whacky!

 

[tristansmommy]

Msilverbow your chart looks really good, I'm glad you are back with us.I go to The doctor on wed to get the test done but who knows when I will get the results. I am sick and had to go get antibiodics today. I am starting to feel the baby moving a little but,which makes me feel so much better. I really hope you girls get the answers you need and you will both get pregnant soon

 

[tristansmommy]

How are you girls doing? I went and heard the heartbeat on Halloween out was beating at 150 so they said it was good.wondering how you two are

 

[Fizzyfefe]

I'm doing okay, thanks for asking. How are you girls?

Tristansmommy, any word on the syphilis test? How exciting to hear your baby's heartbeat on Halloween. I can't believe you're almost 12 weeks already.

Msilverbow, congrats on ovulating early! Hoping that CD8 was implantation dip!

As for me, this cycle is still so messed up. I've been bleeding practically nonstop since September 20, with only 10 days of no spotting or bleeding. I just don't know what my body is doing, and I'm sick of it. I'll wake up without spotting, think that it's over with, only to start spotting again in the early evening.

Still waiting to schedule the pelvic ultrasound, as I got a new job. Nothing fancy, as it's only a temporary seasonal job. I wasn't really looking for a job, but my MIL offered, so I accepted. It's weird, especially because I haven't had a job in over a year!

 

[tristansmommy]

Hey they retested me on Halloween but I haven't gotten the results yet.it was very reassuring to hear the heartbeat. I can't believe I am already 12 weeks,got long way to go but at least I am feeling good and sleeping better. When are they going to do the ultrasound on you,I want them to find out what's going on with you

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Ultrasound is scheduled for tomorrow morning. I will let you know when I get the results. I'm still bleeding, much heavier now.

 

[tristansmommy]

Hey please let me know,IM so.sorry you are having so much trouble. I got my test back and no shyphillis it was a false positive, that was scary though. My thoughts are with you,be looking for your results tomorrow

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Oh, that's great to hear. I bet you are so relieved!

 

[MommysLove07]

How long have you been trying? I know it's tough and the disappointment when AF comes is terrible! We have been trying for 7 months. I found out I have a slightly blocked right tube and am taking clomid right now for the first time. This gets exhausting, doesn't it?

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Hi Mommyslove. :wave: I've been trying for 11 months.

Do they know why you have a blocked tube?

My ultrasound was this morning. It was a little uncomfortable, but not too bad. The doctor will call me with the results on Friday. I don't know everything about ultrasounds, but I did see something on my left ovary that was quite worrying...

 

[MrsTurner2012]

I'm back!!

All out trouble has been sorted & we are now settled into married life and now ready to try again.

Any big news? It's been a few months!!x

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Hey MrsTurner, it's really nice to hear from you. I was actually looking at your profile just yesterday to see if you'd updated anything. How is married life, and your job? What made you guys decide to try again?

Not a lot of positive news from me. I've been having an awful time with my cycle - been bleeding since September 20, and I've had blood tests and an ultrasound to try and see what's wrong. My blood results were normal, and I won't get my ultrasound results until Friday.

 

[tristansmommy]

Hey everyone,fefe I hate waiting for test results! I just hope they can give you some answers this.time, you shouldn't just bleed for.no reason. I hope it is something they can get fixed and everything will get normal for you soon. Mrs Turner we missed you,I am doing good almost 13 weeks now and getting super big already I still think I may be having twins. I hope that you can get pregnant quickly,just try to relax and enjoy it,and it will happen when it's time

 

[MrsTurner2012]

Hey hey!

The job is going really well. Married life has just been terrible! Don't think it has anything to do with being married though and we can now start to be newly weds now we don't have to do our other house up and struggle day to day!

Last weekend was our first weekend since we got married that we actually had to ourselves, we went into a baby shop and it literally was the happiest we've been in these past few months so we knew that we had to start again before we felt it was too late.

So I have my OPK's at the ready and I am going to start with them on Saturday.

Oh Fefe! I wish you so so much luck, it's horrible going through such tough times for whatever reason. Stay strong and it'll happen :0)

Twins?! Wow. Have you not been able to get confirmation yet? My best friend is going to have her twins in January. A month early. I'm so excited x

 

[tristansmommy]

My first ultrasound pic there was something they couldn't tell what it was and it was only 6 weeks when I had it done. IM going to the doctor on Tuesday so IM going to ask them to.she if.they find two heartbeats.I did the wedding ring on a string thing over my stomach and it wentcirle so that means a girl,I hope it's true!

 

[tristansmommy]

Fefe let us know when they call you with your results

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Ohhh goodness, ladies. Lots has happened since Wednesday. Let me fill you in.

Yesterday, I got a call from my doctor saying that the ultrasound did not show anything abnormal, and if I wanted the bleeding to stop, then I could just get back on birth control. Let's just say that didn't go over well. I was very angry and cried most of the day.

I decided to make an appointment with another doctor, since this one is doing absolutely nothing to help me. So, I called an Ob/Gyn and made an appointment for this morning.

The doctor today said I could have endometriosis, and that it would not have shown up on an ultrasound. She said it would definitely be causing the abnormal bleeding, the pain, and the irregularity. She wants to schedule me for a pelvic laparoscopy next Friday. Basically, they would make an incision in my navel, stick a scope in, and look at my uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries. She said it was a simple outpatient procedure.

She said if the laparoscopy showed nothing, then she would start me on Metformin or Clomid.

I am overwhelmed now, and kind of panicking. I am so excited to finally have someone who is willing to diagnose the root of my problems, but surgery scares me. The thought of being put under anesthesia makes my heart pound. But at least I would have an answer, you know?

So now I have to talk to my husband, my job, and the insurance company to figure all this out.

 

[tristansmommy]

Fefe I AM so glad that someone is finally ready to help you get this figured out. I think that it is a pretty routine procedure and just think once it's done you will be closer to having that baby you have dreamed about. Just have faith that it's the right thing for you and to finally have answers will be such a relief off you