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Oh now that is exciting. Doctors can be frustrating at the best of time but when you are already frustrated its a million times worse!
Fingers & toes crossed that they diagnose you properly & you can get sorted :0)
 
Hey ladies how is everyone doing,fefe are you still nervous about your surgery? I went to the doctor today,she said my uterus felt bigger than 13+2 so they checked me on ultrasound to make sure there want two. Three was one healthy baby wriggling around,I was so excited to see it. I an just so glad it is doing good in there.
 
Hey girls. How are you both doing?

So I'm having some issues with getting this surgery all figured out. I was under the impression that I got to choose the day, but I got a call yesterday saying that it was scheduled for next Wednesday. I can't have it on Wednesday because I have to work on Friday. So I'm trying to figure out the best day to do it, but it's just getting complicated. I'm worried that I won't be healed enough to go to work, because I will have to lift heavy boxes and bend over and stuff.

Hubby and I talked about it, and he thinks I should wait until the holidays are over and the seasonal job is over. This means waiting until January. We really need the money, and can't afford to miss any days of work. I'm also thinking about what could happen if something does go wrong during the surgery, and how much extra time I would need to heal. So it's just driving me crazy that I have to put my job before my health, but then I figure, I've been dealing with this for about a year, so what's one more month? :shrug:

Anyway.

Holy moly, you are 13+4 weeks! I can't believe how quickly time is flying, Tristansmommy. :)

MrsTurner, how's everything with you?
 
Well, after a bunch of phone calls with the receptionist and insurance company, surgery is scheduled for 12/04 at 1000!

:shock:
 
Yay! That's soon! Something positive to look forward to.

I'm frustrated. Using OPK's and no ovulation yet. Supposed to happen today judging by my app! (Not that reliable I know) but now want to do some more research!
Can they tell me negative even if I am ovulating?!

Im thinking that the last time we tried I may have not ovulated at all and am now starting to panic!

It's my first month off the pill tho so that could be it.

Everyone and EVERYONE is announcing they are pregnant and it's starting to get me down.

I'm praying for us all to be happy & healthy
 
Not sure. What phone app are you using? You don't temp, right?

Sorry you're feeling down. It's so hard when everyone else in your life is pregnant and you're not. :( I feel like I'm going to be left behind, like everyone else in the world is going to to get pregnant, and I'll just be eternally TTC.
 
Im sorry to both of you if I get you down when I put stuff on here. I hope and pray you both find out whatever info you need to get pregnant. Fefe I hope Theycan get things in line for you and your periods will get normal. Mrs Turner I hope you also get you ovulation and cycle figured out. I know how frustrating it is,I think of you two often
 
No, no, I didn't mean that at all. I am so happy that you got pregnant, Tristansmommy.

There's people in my life, though, that aren't married, don't have steady income or stable jobs, didn't even want kids, and weren't even trying to get pregnant, but still got pregnant faster. I've wanted children for years, and still am not pregnant. We've done everything right... we both got an education, we got married, we have steady income, I take prenatal vitamins and research everything possible for a health baby, but still nothing. I just don't see the fairness in the world sometimes.

But trust me, I have no negative feelings towards you. I am beyond happy that you are pregnant and have a healthy little sticky bean. :hugs:
 
Nothing negative whatsoever!!

As humans we always want something we haven't got!

We'll get our times Fefe!!

Sooner rather than later I hope.

I think I just thought if get a positive OPK and bam.. Know when to BD!

Nothing is ever that simple tho is it!!
 
I hope so, MrsTurner! Any positive OPK yet?

How are you both doing this weekend?
 
Hey girls im doing ok just really stressed at my husband and his job right now. I am so on edge about everything and I just can't deal with stressful situations at all right now. I am doing good on the pregnancy front,14 weeks today. My back is starting to hurt alot and getting comfortable is getting harder but other than that no complaints. I hope your surgery goes well and you finally get the answers you need. Mrs Turner did you get that positive opk?
 
No nothing!

:0( think I must have missed it if it did happen.

Ill try with them again next month

Try & relax as much as u can to keep u and the little one safe
 
Hey ladies, just wanted to say hi and wish you both a happy Thanksgiving. We are getting ready for failure come into town.I am doing good, we have about decided to find out what the baby is when I get to that ultrasound which should be around Christmas. I didn't want to know but I seen to be more anxious to know thus time around . Well I hope you are both well
 
Hey girls, happy Thanksgiving to you both. It's been a busy week, getting everything coordinated for the holiday. I'm still bleeding and having pain, so can't wait for this surgery to be here already. Only 13 days away!

Tristansmommy, what do you mean when you say you're getting ready for failure? Are you less stressed?

MrsTurner, how's everything with you?
 
Just waiting for AF now!

I would have to find out the sex. Too impatient.

I do hope the surgery bring answers!!
 
Hey how are you both, well we got through Thanksgiving and now on to Christmas.I hate Christmas shopping, how are things going for each of you? Fefe are you getting ready for your surgery I really hope they find what they need to so you can move on from thus. Mrs Turner did you get your period?
 
We don't have a thanksgiving here but have been kept busy by moving house.

Fefe hope you are ok!

This thread has been v quiet.

My period is due on thurs. been testing every day for the last 5 days! Anxious but nothing yet.
Last test will be used tomorrow and then we shall see what happens.

Is everything going well with you?x
 
Hey girls. Sorry, I've been feeling really down lately and haven't been posting much. I know I'm having this surgery in a week, but I still feel really awful about it. My greatest fear is that they're going open up my belly, then say that there's nothing wrong. I'm scared about being put to sleep and intubated. I'm still bleeding heavily and in pain, and I'm so sick of being tired all the time. I know I'm being a Debbie Downer about it all, but I'm just so miserable.

My family was never big on Christmas, so I never had to worry about shopping. We never wrapped gifts or put up the tree after my brother and I were old enough to know that Santa didn't exist. My hubby's family, though, is CRAZY about Christmas. They go nuts every year making cookies and candy, shopping, going out and getting a real tree, decorating... They love it, so they're trying to turn me into a Christmas fiend as well.

Honestly, I'm feeling negatively about that as well because I wanted a BFP before Christmas. I wanted to announce it in some special way while everyone was opening gifts. Obviously, it's not going to happen this year, so I feel like I have nothing to look forward to.

I know I sound horrible, and I'm sorry that I've been so negative lately. I really hope things get better after this surgery. It's just that I've been bleeding so long that I irrationally feel that it's never going to stop, that it's never going to happen for us. :(

But anyway... sorry again.

How do you girls usually celebrate the Christmas season? MrsTurner, I really hope you get your BFP on Thursday. Tristansmommy, good luck with your shopping. You can always do it online and not worry about the crazy shoppers out there!
 
I'm sorry you feel so negative, it must be scary going for this surgery with no guarantee that it will be the solution to everything.

I have a friend who bled for weeks and weeks on end and the doctors never managed to find out what was wrong with her but she has managed to have 4 babies! 2 of which are my god children so don't lose hope.

I know it's easy for me to write these words but you are living the life & sometimes no words can make a difference but I will make sure I send you positive thoughts across the pond!

Christmas will be strange this year as my son is going to stay at his dads on Xmas eve so it will be the first year not waking up with him on Xmas morning.

We then pick hubby's daughter up in the afternoon & will have our Christmas morning in the evening.

After the few months we've had I've really not thrown myself into the festive season that much this year so hoping next year will be better.

AF is due, I've woken up & still in bed n usually it's here so when I get up n go to the loo ill know. Stress of moving house may make me late tho.

Sending lots of hugs to you both x x
 

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