Deb111
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Hi ladies,
A little of over 3 months ago hubby was diagnosed with azoospermia - I'd never heard of it. I'd also never heard of ICSI which we are now heading for. All I can say is 'thank God' for forums like this! I have found several others on here who are at various stages of going through the same process as we are and thought it would be good to have a place where we can all share our experiences and feelings.
So a little about me ...
My name's Deb and I'm 36. Hubby is 44. We've been TTC since we got married 2 years ago. After the first few months I always felt something was not quite right, but everyone told me to 'relax' and stop stressing.
In Dec 2009 we went to our GP and got referred to the fertility clinic who did some basic tests and diagnosed hubby with azoospermia (after initially telling us that hubby's first SA was 'normal' ... but that's a whole other story!)
He is now waiting for his SSR in October. It was our choice to delay until then as I wanted to get hubby on the supplements to make sure that if they do find sperm, they're the best quality they can be.
Whilst I wouldn't wish this situation on anyone, I hope that those of you who are dealing with it will drop by and introduce yourselves and if you want to let me know dates of SSR's, ICSI treatments etc, I will add them to the front page.
It would also be nice to hear any azoospermia / SSR success stories!
Deb xx
Thought it would be a good idea to add a list of some of the things we've come up with that it might be useful to ask urologist / medical professionals. I'll add it as a spoiler so that those who want to can access it without it taking up loads of room.
If your dh's want to chat about azoospermia with other men going through it, I've set up a thread on another forum
REPOSTED VIDEO AS THE PREVIOUS LINK DIDN'T WORK ANYMORE. I know I've posted this in the thread somewhere, but I can never find it. You might like to have a look at a video journal I've put together of some of the emotions and feelings we've been going through, and are going through. It was something that I initially just did for myself and to share with close family and friends, but I hope by posting it here, others might realise they're not going through these feelings alone.
deafgal01 - My tests all came back clear but not as lucky for DH- 0 count in SA 3 times so far by urologist. Biopsy done July 2012 which revealed no blockage issues. DH tried on Clomiphene Citrate along with Anastrozole, but it didn't do the trick. Tried two IUI in 2013, one natural and one with injections before IUI process, both didn't work. Now on break awaiting for 2015 to try again but with home insemination.
rdleela - obstructive azoos; Vasoepididymostomy (VE) surgery was successful in Sept.2012, natural pregnancy 14 months later resulted in healthy baby girl born Aug.2014
Rainbow123 - BFP after failed mTESE and went to option B of IUI with donor sperm. Baby due 3rd Feb 2015
arzoo - synchonised cycle at the Lister in March 2014 and we were exteremely luck to find sperm - It's twins!
loobylou_01 - Owen Leslie (8lb 8oz) born 1st May 2011 and a little sister for Owen; Imogen
Flake-y - Xander Blair Robert (8lb 15oz) born 11th November 2011 and a little brother for Xander; Caleb
Deb111 - successful microTESE, 1 falied ICSI, 23rd Feb 2012 from FET Aimee Meghan born 26th Oct 2012 (8lb 13.5oz) Soon to be starting 2nd round of ICSI to see if we can get a little brother or sister for Aimee
Pink Lolly - Second DIUI - April 2012
Raelynn - Daughter born May 2013 from DIUI, doing DIUI again for baby 2
Bubumachi - 6th ICSI cycle (using frozen sperm - thanks to tamoxifen) due Nov 3rd 2014
Mikihob - currently on the road to IVF. Fourth failed IUI and am now moving onto IVF.
silverbell - mTESE - 0 sperm. Currently TTC with donor sperm IUI.
Bookworm - first ICSI cycle December 2011; OTD 23rd December 2011
Sar187 - 2nd IVF/ICSI cycle - 23rd December 2011
wibble wobble - waiting for donor matching
KB38 - trying to decide what to do next .....
Tigerlily - DH to have TESE 23rd March 2012 (keeping everything crossed!)
SND - Waiting for 1st IUI w/ Donor in May/June, 2012
CanadianMaple -We have ruled out mTESE and am on BCP, preparing for a dIUI with clomid and a trigger shot. IUI planned for the end of July or very first week of August 2012
MissAma - LTTTC since 2006, NOA diagnosed April 2008 - successful SSR and iCSI in Spain 2008 - chemical no frosties- new SSR and ICSI in Sweden 2010 - Dara Tea Maria our miracle azoo baby born 11th of Dec 2010 - 3rd SSR on the 17th of January 2012
mumanddad - Corbyn Matthew born 28th January 2012 (4lb 15oz)
Stinas - ER - Aug. 6 - 12 Eggs - 10 Mature - 3 Embryos, possibly couple more late fertilization - ET 8/11
Cosita - Appointment with ICSi consultant - 7th May 2012
MJ - one grade A frostie on board - OTD 21st June 2012
SunUp - May 2012 - doing IUI with clomid
Wanbmum - 20th Jan 2011 - waiting to find out if they will operate on dh
Wrightywales - ET July 2010
Step Mummy - SSR 1st September 2010
Waitingginger - Hubby's ultrasound scan - 3rd September 2010
April4jdg - HSG - 14th September 2010 - all clear - testicular biopsy 6th Jan 2011 - D-IUI 18th May 2011
Hulahoops04 - Urology appointment 14th September 2010 - Infertility Clinic appointment - 1st October 2010
laura25 - Appointment 4th October 2010
Nayla82 - 12th March 2011 EC
Dancergirl - IUI 26th Feb 2011
ArmyWifey - Dr's appt - 22nd April 2011
Wifeyw - DH awaiting TESE biopsy appointment
Luckdragon - First urology appintment - 27th July 2011
A little of over 3 months ago hubby was diagnosed with azoospermia - I'd never heard of it. I'd also never heard of ICSI which we are now heading for. All I can say is 'thank God' for forums like this! I have found several others on here who are at various stages of going through the same process as we are and thought it would be good to have a place where we can all share our experiences and feelings.
So a little about me ...
My name's Deb and I'm 36. Hubby is 44. We've been TTC since we got married 2 years ago. After the first few months I always felt something was not quite right, but everyone told me to 'relax' and stop stressing.
In Dec 2009 we went to our GP and got referred to the fertility clinic who did some basic tests and diagnosed hubby with azoospermia (after initially telling us that hubby's first SA was 'normal' ... but that's a whole other story!)
He is now waiting for his SSR in October. It was our choice to delay until then as I wanted to get hubby on the supplements to make sure that if they do find sperm, they're the best quality they can be.
Whilst I wouldn't wish this situation on anyone, I hope that those of you who are dealing with it will drop by and introduce yourselves and if you want to let me know dates of SSR's, ICSI treatments etc, I will add them to the front page.
It would also be nice to hear any azoospermia / SSR success stories!
Deb xx
Thought it would be a good idea to add a list of some of the things we've come up with that it might be useful to ask urologist / medical professionals. I'll add it as a spoiler so that those who want to can access it without it taking up loads of room.
Urologist will check for presence of the vas deferens and may also do an ultrasound scan
Was the sperm sample centrifuged? This can sometimes locate an occasional sperm that may otherwise be missed
Make sure the folllowing blood tests are done - FSH, LH, estradiol, prolactin, testosterone, thyroid, test for cystic fibrosis carrier, test for Y chromosome microdeletion, karyotype test
Also ask if they will freeze any sperm if found in future SA's
They may plan to do a surgical sperm retrieval - ask if this will be:
- PESA (Percutaneous Epididymal Sperm Aspiration)
This procedure may be performed under GA or local anaesthetic with sedation. A fine needle is passed into the epididymis to extract fluid. This is then checked in the laboratory by the embryologist for sperm.
- TESE (Testicular Sperm Extraction)
This procedure may be performed under GA or local anaesthetic with sedation. A small sample of testicular tissue is extracted from the testes. This can be achieved by either a fine needle being inserted into the testes or a small incision being made.
- MESA (Micro-epididymal Sperm Aspiration)
MESA is a procedure to retrieve sperm from the epididymis in men who have a diagnosed blocked vas deferens It is normally carried out under general anaesthetic. The sperm that is taken from the epididymis usually has poor motility so doctors usually proceed to ICSI on the same day.
Also VERY important to ask if they find any sperm, no matter how few, will they freeze for future treatment? With my hubby, they found 3 perfectly healthy, well developed sperm, but our clinic got rid of them because they said that they have a minimum requirement of 100 for freezing! We were NOT told this prior to the surgery)
Was the sperm sample centrifuged? This can sometimes locate an occasional sperm that may otherwise be missed
Make sure the folllowing blood tests are done - FSH, LH, estradiol, prolactin, testosterone, thyroid, test for cystic fibrosis carrier, test for Y chromosome microdeletion, karyotype test
Also ask if they will freeze any sperm if found in future SA's
They may plan to do a surgical sperm retrieval - ask if this will be:
- PESA (Percutaneous Epididymal Sperm Aspiration)
This procedure may be performed under GA or local anaesthetic with sedation. A fine needle is passed into the epididymis to extract fluid. This is then checked in the laboratory by the embryologist for sperm.
- TESE (Testicular Sperm Extraction)
This procedure may be performed under GA or local anaesthetic with sedation. A small sample of testicular tissue is extracted from the testes. This can be achieved by either a fine needle being inserted into the testes or a small incision being made.
- MESA (Micro-epididymal Sperm Aspiration)
MESA is a procedure to retrieve sperm from the epididymis in men who have a diagnosed blocked vas deferens It is normally carried out under general anaesthetic. The sperm that is taken from the epididymis usually has poor motility so doctors usually proceed to ICSI on the same day.
Also VERY important to ask if they find any sperm, no matter how few, will they freeze for future treatment? With my hubby, they found 3 perfectly healthy, well developed sperm, but our clinic got rid of them because they said that they have a minimum requirement of 100 for freezing! We were NOT told this prior to the surgery)
https://www.southwestvasectomyreversal.com/forum/viewthread/180/
REPOSTED VIDEO AS THE PREVIOUS LINK DIDN'T WORK ANYMORE. I know I've posted this in the thread somewhere, but I can never find it. You might like to have a look at a video journal I've put together of some of the emotions and feelings we've been going through, and are going through. It was something that I initially just did for myself and to share with close family and friends, but I hope by posting it here, others might realise they're not going through these feelings alone.
deafgal01 - My tests all came back clear but not as lucky for DH- 0 count in SA 3 times so far by urologist. Biopsy done July 2012 which revealed no blockage issues. DH tried on Clomiphene Citrate along with Anastrozole, but it didn't do the trick. Tried two IUI in 2013, one natural and one with injections before IUI process, both didn't work. Now on break awaiting for 2015 to try again but with home insemination.
rdleela - obstructive azoos; Vasoepididymostomy (VE) surgery was successful in Sept.2012, natural pregnancy 14 months later resulted in healthy baby girl born Aug.2014
Rainbow123 - BFP after failed mTESE and went to option B of IUI with donor sperm. Baby due 3rd Feb 2015
arzoo - synchonised cycle at the Lister in March 2014 and we were exteremely luck to find sperm - It's twins!
loobylou_01 - Owen Leslie (8lb 8oz) born 1st May 2011 and a little sister for Owen; Imogen
Flake-y - Xander Blair Robert (8lb 15oz) born 11th November 2011 and a little brother for Xander; Caleb
Deb111 - successful microTESE, 1 falied ICSI, 23rd Feb 2012 from FET Aimee Meghan born 26th Oct 2012 (8lb 13.5oz) Soon to be starting 2nd round of ICSI to see if we can get a little brother or sister for Aimee
Pink Lolly - Second DIUI - April 2012
Raelynn - Daughter born May 2013 from DIUI, doing DIUI again for baby 2
Bubumachi - 6th ICSI cycle (using frozen sperm - thanks to tamoxifen) due Nov 3rd 2014
Mikihob - currently on the road to IVF. Fourth failed IUI and am now moving onto IVF.
silverbell - mTESE - 0 sperm. Currently TTC with donor sperm IUI.
Bookworm - first ICSI cycle December 2011; OTD 23rd December 2011
Sar187 - 2nd IVF/ICSI cycle - 23rd December 2011
wibble wobble - waiting for donor matching
KB38 - trying to decide what to do next .....
Tigerlily - DH to have TESE 23rd March 2012 (keeping everything crossed!)
SND - Waiting for 1st IUI w/ Donor in May/June, 2012
CanadianMaple -We have ruled out mTESE and am on BCP, preparing for a dIUI with clomid and a trigger shot. IUI planned for the end of July or very first week of August 2012
MissAma - LTTTC since 2006, NOA diagnosed April 2008 - successful SSR and iCSI in Spain 2008 - chemical no frosties- new SSR and ICSI in Sweden 2010 - Dara Tea Maria our miracle azoo baby born 11th of Dec 2010 - 3rd SSR on the 17th of January 2012
mumanddad - Corbyn Matthew born 28th January 2012 (4lb 15oz)
Stinas - ER - Aug. 6 - 12 Eggs - 10 Mature - 3 Embryos, possibly couple more late fertilization - ET 8/11
Cosita - Appointment with ICSi consultant - 7th May 2012
MJ - one grade A frostie on board - OTD 21st June 2012
SunUp - May 2012 - doing IUI with clomid
Wanbmum - 20th Jan 2011 - waiting to find out if they will operate on dh
Wrightywales - ET July 2010
Step Mummy - SSR 1st September 2010
Waitingginger - Hubby's ultrasound scan - 3rd September 2010
April4jdg - HSG - 14th September 2010 - all clear - testicular biopsy 6th Jan 2011 - D-IUI 18th May 2011
Hulahoops04 - Urology appointment 14th September 2010 - Infertility Clinic appointment - 1st October 2010
laura25 - Appointment 4th October 2010
Nayla82 - 12th March 2011 EC
Dancergirl - IUI 26th Feb 2011
ArmyWifey - Dr's appt - 22nd April 2011
Wifeyw - DH awaiting TESE biopsy appointment
Luckdragon - First urology appintment - 27th July 2011