Tmb: That's great about the possibility of a midwife after all! You're right, I'm here until 19 weeks. I cant wait to go home. Usually around this time of year, I get antsy for our annual visit to Canada, but knowing that we are going home for good and that we are going to have a baby is making me extra anxious to get back!
Nina and Ebony - trust me, I'm not very patient either, but Ive slowly learned that there is no changing the way things are done in China. And if I complain, it usually slows down the process even more
another reason why being at home will make things so much better. Oh, and the driving...just when we thought our crazy day was almost over, we got the most insane taxi driver back to the train station. He was driving so fast and weaving in and out of traffic. We're used to aggressive taxi drivers here, but I had never seen anything like it in all my years of travelling...I felt like we were in a racing game. And I was looking frantically for a seatbelt, but they were broken. DH spent the whole ride holding me in case we got into an accident, which we nearly did about a dozen times! Anyway...besides the news about the baby being okay, the other good thing that resulted from such a long and crazy day is that I slept amazingly last night for the first time in weeks
Nina: DH and I are both teachers at a Canadian International school. About the ultrasound, they gave me a photocopied sheet of paper all written in Chinese with my results, and at the bottom, there are 2 tiny ultrasound pics, but nothing as good as what I would have got back home
But I do think I'll use all the stuff from China to make a scrapbook or something (along with the stuff from Canada during the second half of the pregnancy) because it's kind of a neat adventure that baby started out somewhere so far from home
Well, they want me back for 2 more appointments before I fly home...not sure though. I might try to bring it down to only 1 appointment if possible. The days I go there are considered sick days for me, but they count towards DH's personal days, and he only has one more left for this year...which means I'd have to brave the situation without him one of the times, and I'm not sure I want to (and he says he really doesn't want me to have to go by myself).
Haha, longest post ever! Thanks for your comments and support ladies. Being away from home and keeping this a secret isn't always fun, so I really appreciate being able to chat to you on here about things