So interesting to hear about all you ladies expecting the 2nd or + child...I hope I'll be lucky enough to be there in the next few years. I'm 34 now (35 in November), and we do want to have a few children but we also want to take our time with the first one. Baby steps!
And so expectations for this lovely first bump, well my headspace these days is really thinking about how my relationship with DH will change, I hope that it just gets stronger as it has through pregnancy so far, when I see what he's like preparing for our new family member, and how excited he is about the entire process. I think about logistics, as we will be moving to a new duty station next year and I think of what security arrangements we'll need to have in place for the three of us, and how we can make sure that we can keep the baby safe while still working in the field of humanitarian intervention. It will be a fine balancing act, I'm sure!
Personally, I go between superficial concerns (what will my body be like after the baby, and what do I need to do now to make sure I stay in shape and can be health), and very real personal concerns (what if I can't breastfeed like I want to? am I emotionally ready to be a mother)? Sometimes the planning and purchasing feel like small accomplishments (yay I bought a baby monitor!) but then at other times, it can be overwhelming (good grief, what size of onesies should I buy for the first month? newborn diapers or 0-3? what kind of wipes are best for the environment, what kind won't give my baby a rash? what kind of baby carrier will be good for the baby's back, but also support mine, what kind can I use on an airplane, what kind can I breastfeed with?)...
Good grief I feel so lucky to have a space like this to share these thoughts!