Please, tell me I'm not the only one like that. I know it's the guys who tend to complain more about it, the whole thing with feeling pressured to deliver and killing the spontaneous part of it, but I have a complaint as well. First of all, I expected to O on time. As soon as the counter started telling me I was getting into fertile times, we bd'ed every day. Now normally that's A LOT for me. Our usual rate is 2 times a week. I was expecting my temps to go high, but they still didn't. And now I'm puzzled. Should I continue every day thing and be completely dead and turned off by any hint of sex in no time at all? Or should I go every other day and lower the chances? Or should I rely on OPK (that I'm starting to hate with passion)? Second of all, I don't believe my sex drive is getting any higher closer to O. In fact, it's actually at the peak right before AF and shortly after. I'm a freak of nature. Third, I would like to complain about spontaneous part and pressure to deliver as well. There's nothing spontaneous left at all. And the pressure to deliver results in making sure the don't escape too fast. I don't like laying still after. I wanna cuddle and have some more fun. Add pre-seed and softcup to it and it just gets so mechanical. I actually can't wait for this O to be over with, so I can have some fun and relaxing sex instead of this pressured, scheduled, come at the right time, lay still, joy-killer sex.