Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

OH and I saw on FB we have another Disco baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yogi had her 2nd little one!!!! A little boy!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats Yogi!!!! :happydance: (sorry if someone already posted this)

How many Disco babies is this now? And on the way?

In a month this thread will be THREE YEARS old. I cannot believe it.
 
Good luck Lucy!! I'm certain eeverything will be great! !

Welcome back Allie, can't wait to hear all about you're trip.
 
I put Delilah down at 7:30pm last night. She woke at 6:45am this morning. I quickly stopped by my computer to check on an B&B girl who was testing after IVF today (BFN) and by the time I got to Delilah’s room, she had fallen back asleep. It’s now 7am and she and Tim are both sleeping! I’m at a loss of what to do right now! LOL! So I’m finally catching up here.

Mel, I’m just catching up on what’s been going on with you. I’m so sorry about the GD. It sounds like you have a good diet plan. And what’s going on with Gord’s sister? I think you are right, she clearly needs to talk. It’s so nice that you are willing to talk to her. It can be intimidating talking to someone who is having so many issues. You are a good SIL. Oh, just read your latest update about her. Does she have known mental health issues? Something doesn’t sound right.

Vicky, your baby is officially turning into a toddler. It’s crazy how quickly it happens! I’m trying to cherish my baby time. I know it’s going to be gone soon. So funny that you are used to partying on your bday! I know the feeling. It used to be the event of the year for me! I hope you had a few drinks with your cake and sexy time at least!

Round, our friend’s little boy was completely obsessed with toilets. He always had to look inside the tank, even at restaurants! His parents indulged him in his obsession. He wanted to be a plumber for a while. He’s 5 now and has outgrown it. Yay for sleep! I highly encourage trying to wean the midnight feed. Bryce doesn’t need it. He probably doesn’t need the 3am feed either, but one step at a time, especially if you are enjoying it. I had my husband take the shift I was trying to wean. He picked her up and cuddled her until she fell back asleep. She looked for the boob, but quickly fell back asleep when there wasn’t one. It took 2 nights of this and since then, she has slept through that feeding. Now she wakes anytime between 4am – 7am for her first feed. The norm is around 6am. Just read your second post about not weaning until after your trip. I think that is a very good idea! No need to stress yourself out. I’m sorry about your mom. My step-father also had dementia. It is an awful disease. I can’t remember if I told you, but my job was to help family members who were coping with loved ones who had dementia and other illnesses. Dementia is one of my areas of expertise. Let me know if you have any questions.

Sparkly, I can’t believe you are 22 weeks! What an amazing twin bump you have. Eeeek! You are going to have 2 daughters soon! Do you have a plan for delivery? Are you going to try and go vaginally or are you going to schedule a c section? I remember the insomnia days of pregnancy. I was so annoyed. Definitely training for the real thing!

Virginia, congrats on the good marks for your class. That can’t be easy when you have little ones to take care of! What kind of work do you want to do with your studies?

Lucy, good luck on your scan. Will be stalking. I hope you feel better soon.

Allie, welcome home! It was soooo awesome meeting you and Alistair in real life. I had such a wonderful time with you both. I’ve been thinking about you a lot and have a ton of questions. I’ll post them in your journal. I’m so mad though. I didn’t take one picture! We were so busy chatting, we didn’t do a very good job with pics. I know you got a few though.

I saw Yogi’s post on FB! Congrats Yogi!

OMG, it’s 7:30 and she’s still sleeping! New world record in our house. My only concern now is that her nap schedule will be off and I might not get a 3rd nap in. I love her 3rd nap because I get an extra break in my day and I can keep her up later so she can see Tim before bed. Oh well, it was worth having my morning to catch up on the Disco thread. My girl turned 10 months old on Wednesday :cloud9: She is still doing the army crawl, but is very efficient. She learned how to sit up from the lying down position and is pulling herself up to standing on everything she can get her hands on. I had to lower her crib mattress last weekend. She's cutting her 3rd tooth. She's a bit whiney at times, but I read that it's a phase. Especially when they are learning something new. Over all she's a delight and I'm more in love every day if that's even possible.
 
Thanks Hearty. I am not really sure, but something does not sound right at all. She had a weird status on her fb this morning, and so I was thinking what now. Then I seen just over an hour ago she msgd me asking for me to call her, but I don't have her number. So I am waiting for her to msg me back with it so I can find out what she wants. I am just sitting here waiting for her to ask for money so she can come out west. Unfortunately, we do not have it to give to her, and I don't know if I would if I did have it. Something just does not seem right at all with what is going on.

Way to go Delilah!!! They grow up so quickly Hearty. Next thing you know, you will be having her 1st birthday party, and then all the things that come after that will just amaze you. For instance, the other night I noticed how much Kash's feet have grown all of a sudden lol. The independence and everything else too. It's just amazing watching them grow, and it makes me sad he is not my baby anymore (which he pointed to my belly last night and told me the baby was in there as he is a big boy lol). I look at him every day and wonder where my 18.5" 7lb little baby went to!

Good Luck today Luce!
 
Thanks girls all went really well baby is weighing 11oz and everything looked ok which is wonderful. Baby is in the right position which I'm pleased about ad Benjamin was breech at 20 weeks and for most of the pregnancy so fingers crossed baby will stay that way. Saw consultant too had a scary moment as he wanted me to go back in for another scan my heart sank when he said that as I thought something was wrong but I had to have an internal scan to check my cervical length due to having treatment for precancerous cells last year. I measured at 28 mm which he said was ok but just ok so have another scan in 4 weeks just to check on the cervical length. We'll have a growth scan at 28 and 35 weeks with consultant appointment too. All looking good so far.

Baby was so cute she or he kept putting her/his arms and hands over face like the baby was saying no pictures. We had lots of movement but little one wasn't as active as Benjamin this baby seems calmer. Will post a pic later.

I got my bloods back today and I am anaemic so have got to take iron tablets.

Amanda that's some good sleeping hope she still has a good nap too. That's so lovely you had a great time with Allie but damn no photos.

Allie welcome home good to have you back.

Mel it's crazy how quickly the time goes one minute you've got this little baby the next you have this active little toddler running round.
 
Lucy, I'm not sure if you remember, but I was on constant cervix checks from 20 weeks until she was born. 28mm is ok, but not ideal. That's about the range that mine was give or take a few mm. Try and take it easy as much as possible. In the end, mine never did get shorter, funnel or dilate. Apparently I just have a short cervix. Yours could be the same. I'm guessing it is, but I'm glad they are going to check it again. Congrats on a wonderful scan otherwise! And yes, Delilah is taking good naps too. She loves her sleep!

Mel, Kash is a big boy! Luckily you have another baby on the way! I'll be interested to hear what Gord's sister wants. Very strange indeed.
 
glad it all went well Luce! Hope the cervix is like Hearty said and just a short cervix.

me too Hearty! still no return message giving me a phone number. I messaged one of their half brothers and asked if he knew what was up, but he hasn't talked to her either. So not sure if there is a reason for concern or what?!
 
Everyone is chatty again YAY!

Sparkly what a great bump!! Im so happy things are going so well, hubby is so very cute!!
Luce glad to hear baby is great, about the short cervix definately get as much bed rest as possible. As long as they scan you regularly everything will be great.

Mel the situation definately sounds odd...Im thinking she will ask for money in the end, will she also want to stay with you? That could turn out to be stressful for you...

I started to go to a chiropracter this week for my back pain and it was the best decision i ever made. After just 2 sessions im free from pain and its been like 2 years that i get out of bed in the morning without hurting. I feel 28 again hahah!!!

I guess im the only one NOT missing the baby phase lol! I love this period of her life, she has such a great personality and we have bonded so much its crazy. She makes me laugh and appreciate every moment with her, im finally feeling the joys of motherhood i thought would never come. I dont know why they call them the terrible twos!!!
 
Thanks Amanda I did think about you today. Hopefully it will stay the same. The consultant said if there's any change I'll have to have a stitch or be given steroids.

Thanks Vicky. It is a lovely stage seeing their personalities develop.
 
Amanda - I am not sure what I want to do with all these random classes I am taking. I just feel like helping people and doing it through my writing might be the best answer for me. Maybe I'll be a self help guru. LOL
 
Wow...I'm 16 weeks LOL Seems like this pregnancy is flying by! I am modeling at a vintage clothing show this weekend so I am very excited about that. My sister, mother, daughter, and I are going to be staying at the Chateau Laurier and having lots of fancy meals. I am excited to eat my heart out for once. I have still not gained any weight with this baby.
 
curse you Gibs lol! I have now gained 32 lbs! I hope I can get it all off qickly after.

Well I finally heard back from the SIL and she just said that she was goig to ask me a favour but to not worry about it, and something about coming out west. So I am guessing it was for money.

I am falling asleep big time...guess I should call it a night
 
It's all very strange with your sil Mel.

Hope everyone's had a good weekend we had a lovely family day out yesterday Benjamin got to sit in a fire engine which he loved we had a picnic out well in the car as the wind was so cold, we saw red squirrels, watched some birds of prey being flown Benjamin did so much walking he was shattered and even went to bed 15 mins early. It was a beautiful day just cold in the wind been overcast today we've had a quiet day Steve's been doing bits in the House I've tried to rest today as it was a busy day yesterday although we did pop to the shops (to try & get me a new bra but don't stock my size so will have to order one online) and supermarket. My boys have gone for a walk while I cook dinner nothing fancy tonight sausages, chips and beans.
 
Scan and bump pic:
 

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Luce what a cute bump and bubba!!! Sounds like a fun day out!

We have the opposite problem as of last week, 34 degrees temperature and its not even May lol! I realised none of Hero's summer cloths fit well apart from some shorts a something like 4 t-shirts. Yesterday morning it was so hot Hero got a bit of a sun burn and was quite dizzy after our trip to the park. Oh and once again my body is in no shape to greet bikini season Grrr....
 
Vicky, you look great, shut up lol!!!!! Sounds like it's nice and hot already, yowza. I'm jealous, though! :)

Lucy, awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!! What a beautiful bump and scan pic!!! Look at that little one! Soooo adorable. And you are looking fabulous as always.

Happy 16 weeks, Gibs. :hugs:

Mel, I saw your bump pic and you look amazing, not at all like you've gained 30 lbs. Sorry about the GD again.....like you, I did the diet and Alistair was only 7 lbs 3 oz. It can be easily managed but it's just sucky. :hugs:
 
gorgeous bump pic and scan pic Luce :)

30 week picture has been posted now on fb for me. I think I am carrying lower this time then I was with Kash?!

I had my prenatal appt this morning, and he is measuring dead on at 30cm. I also have to do another glucose test as the doctor is wondering if it is a false positive. So I am going in tomorrow to do the 2 hour fasting glucose test - joy oh joy! I just love that lovely orange crap! lol!

Well my SIL finally came out and asked for money. I told her no. Told her I have my own bills to worry about, I am going on mat leave soon and trying to plan a wedding, so I have no extra money to be giving away. I guess she is heading to Edmonton tomorrow, and plans on going East again after school is done to get the kids (I can't see this happening, but we will see). She is saying stuff to me that it's hard to love yourself when your family doesn't love you and that's what her issues are is she wants to be close to her family. So I probably pissed her off with the message I sent, but I had to say it.

I ended up saying that sometimes friends are the family we need most and to never forget them. And that yes her family is messed up, but every family has their issues and she just might not know about them. I told her about how I don't have a relationship with my brother and therefore don't know my neices and nephews at all, but I am not allowing that to ruin my life. I said that her brother and sister and her all went their separate ways once they moved out of the house, and it makes it hard because she is there, Gord is here in the West, and her other sister keeps getting moved around (she's in the military). So I said you have to make the best of what you can. I said that she has 2 boys, and they should be her focus as well as on herself. To quit living her life worrying about everyone else, and if she focused on herself and the kids then she will be happy. I made a comment too about are you really willing to die for what other people think, or live and be happy for you and your boys?! I said that if she continues therapy, that she will realize that she has to put herself first and learn to love herself, and it's not about others not loving you. Made a comment too about has her family ever come out and said I don't love you, or are you just overthinking it and it makes you feel that way?! And said again about how I always overthink everything and assume the worst, and when I actually ask if this is how that person feels, they tell me no...and then I realize it is all just in my head and I thought it but it wasn't true.

I don't know if that is harsh or not, but I don't think I got time for oh woe is me right now with that. I am believing more and more that she did fake this for attention, especially with the whole getting kicked out of the hospital thing that doesn't make sense, and with Gord saying she has done this before in the past too. Sorry if I am offending anyone with this.
 
It's not offensive to me. I agree with you. I have been through too much in my life to be very supportive to people who play the victim. Being an actual victim is a very different story. That is what makes me insane sometimes. I lost everything I ever had *literally* to be a better parent and when people don't put the happiness of their children before their own selfish feelings, it aggravates me. That seems to be what is happening with your SIL. Some sort of desperate cry for attention more then a cry for help.
 

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