Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[grandbleu]

URGENT QUESTION: Ok I thought I would just post my question in this thread since you girls have a lot of experience.

So I had a temp drop this A.M. (You can click on the link to my chart in my siggy to check out the wonderful slide down to AF realm BLEH!) BUT BUT BUT I just took my temp again because I'm obsessive and crazy and I got 36.9 celcius (back in Happy over the coverline territory). Now I know that this is totally against temping rules and I've been up and about for 3 hours...is there any hope for me...No spotting or cramps yet just a lot a apprehension and glimmers of hope. Anybody want to gander a guess for this desperate gal???

 

[NatoPMT]

Morning Bleu, Ive done the same and googled it, it doesnt work Im afraid (damn it) and your temp has set patterns for the day and taking BBT is the the lowest temp of the day so rising after you wake up is expected

you can adjust your first thing in the morning temp here:

https://www.whenmybaby.com/basalbodytemperature.php

hope she doesnt turn up. silly cow doesnt know when shes not wanted

see daily fluctuations here:

 

[grandbleu]

Thanks Nato - for your honesty...I was hoping for a different answer but I prefer reality. MERCI BEAUCOUP!

 

[NatoPMT]

I am supposed to be dusting and fluffing pillows, not posting here. I am out of control.

Mel, im a bit disappointed we dont get to see your giant boil. I was about to tell you a story about a spot on my knee in 1984 but stopped myself.

Allie - got more EWMC today!!! im in unchartered territory. Not as much as yesterday, but its there. I saw it. I agree, the cream cant hurt

Luce, hope youre feeling better today. Thanks for the tip off about the horror film situation, i would so buy it if i were stuck in a horror film. I start screaming and lose the use of my legs if someone chases me.

Yeay sugar at making a tit of yourself. Its not just me that does that then. sorry it got a bit much, but if it helps, thats exactly the sort of thing id do. Had a nosey at your chart - what are your Fri and Sat temps? the optimist in me is hoping the drop then rise was an implantation dip

Hearty, cant wait for this florida dude to get back to you

argh, having to abort reading and posting, my friend is here and im not even dressed

 

[sugarlove]

Hi girls tell me I'm crazy and slap me across the face.
AF has still not arrived, which gives me a LP of 12 days this month. It hasn't been this long for months. I've been feeling sick on and off all week and have strange pains in my tum. I've tested this morn but it's a bfn. However last time I was pg, it took me ages after af was due to get a bfp. I've taken my temp this morn and it's 36.6, need to fill ff in. I foolishly stopped doing it when the spotting started as I thought af was on way. My progesterone was also really crap this month 7dpo, it was only 8.1.
I've now spent the night worrying about going out the other night and drinking and smoking. Please tell me I'm being stupid and there's no way I could be pg with crappy progesterone levels like that!
X
X

 

[Razcox]

Not good news at my scan we have had another MMC, the baby died just after my last scan at 8 weeks. I am so angry right now and fucked off at my stupid body!!!

 

[cazza22]

Eeeek thinking of you razzers ur gonna be fine gorgeous xxxx

 

[vickyd]

Raz No....... Im soo sorry and i just can stop crying.....Its so fucking unfair for you!

 

[sugarlove]

Oh I'm so sorry Raz that's so fucking unfair. My heart sank when I saw your post. Take care of yourself sweetie and post on here as much as you need to for support
Xxx

 

[pregoinnorge]

oh raz, I'm so sorry honey. I'm here for you if you need anything. Damnit, this is so fucking unfair.

 

[Razcox]

Thanks both, feel a bit numb at the min and its all so familiar which is crappy. I have over the weekend to MC naturally and then i have to call Monday to book in a D&C. They cant do it over the weekend.

 

[jenny25]

raz im so sorry i cant believe your going through this again i know how much pain you have been in from before hun i want to send you my love and hugs , you know im here for you if you need to talk im so so sorry xxx

 

[pregoinnorge]

wow, guess sugarlove and I have the exact same thoughts....

sorry girls I haven't been on much, and I probably won't be for awhile. No more TTC for us I'm afraid. With us living apart anyway, it makes no sense to stress about ovulation when undoubtedly we'll miss the opportunity most months. I guess I'll just stay off the pill and see what happens. I guess I don't want to wait too long to figure out what is wrong with me, but if I have to wait for 3 mcs anyway, I suppose I just have to wait.

I've got everything crossed for you Megg! Those little twins are beautiful already
Sorry the HB got you Amanda - I don't know why she also has to be a bitch. It's cruel. Yay, for a positive change in your cycle length though.

Hugs to everyone else I'll be on off and on just because I care about you all!

 

[grandbleu]

Raz - just wanted to say how sorry I am again. Very unfair!

 

[LucyJ]

Oh Raz I am so sorry for you I am just heartbroken If theres anything I can do just say, here for you. Are they referring you for any testing?

 

[Razcox]

Oh Raz I am so sorry for you I am just heartbroken If theres anything I can do just say, here for you. Are they referring you for any testing?

Yeah we are having bloods done on monday and will be referred to the recurrent MC clinic and a consultant in about 3 months when they have the bloods back. Wish we could afford to go private to get it sorted sooner but there you go

 

[sugarlove]

Have you got any pain Raz? Hope you are getting lots of cuddles off your DH

Grandbleu, I'm with Nato on the temping. I think it can make a massive difference if you take it later. I've been known to take 3 different temps and they have varied massively the later it gets. You should really just stick with the first one. You're not out yet though hun. People have had the odd low temp and still been pg!

Amy I think it's a good idea to NTNP prevent for a while. Hopefully it will take a lot of the stress away and you will get your forever baby.

Megg hope your twins are settling in nicely

 

[LucyJ]

Yeah we are having bloods done on monday and will be referred to the recurrent MC clinic and a consultant in about 3 months when they have the bloods back. Wish we could afford to go private to get it sorted sooner but there you go

Yeah I know that feeling we're waiting for the results from our blood work we had to wait 6 weeks before they would do the blood work on us (which we had done on the 1st Dec) and now we are waiting for them but the've said it could take at least 4 weeks but most likely be longer. Sending lots of love and your way.

 

[MinnieMone]

Raz I am so sorry hun, I am choking back the tears here for you, and Amy and for all of us who have suffered all this crap and heartache. It is so unfair. Big hug x

 

[MinnieMone]

Sugar - I've just read back... I don't know much about LP's etc, but when do you normally get your BFP? What CD are you on? Don't worry about the drinking and smoking, think how many women who aren't trying get pregnant for weeks without even knowing. Obviousy it's not ideal, but won't of caused any harm. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Bleu - sorry I don't know anything about temping (I tried it for a bit but have no discipline), but their are some professional temping ladies on here who will be able to help. Welcome to our thread! Notice you are in France, I lived there for a while as a child (my dad is french), we were in Sisteron in Provence, have very fond memories! Don't give up hope of a BFP this month.

Megg - I can't stop thinking about your embies and just how incredible the whole journey is that you've been on. Not long to wait now until the 22nd, will have everything crossed for you, but I'm sure you will have your BFP as the best Christmas present ever.

Amy - as sugar said NTNP will take the stress off and maybe you could coordinate visits with ov. Hope you will be more 'on' than 'off' here, but I understand how it helps to get a break away and clear your head from it all, it becomes so bloody all consuming.

It's such a miserable day here today in London, I have to go out but I'm putting it off as I really just want to curl up with a Dvd and mope. I've never been a big christmas lover but i'm finding it hard to find any joy or optimism at the moment (one of my due dates was 24th Dec). life feels so shit just now.