Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[vickyd]

Jaymes wowza!!!!!! That is a proper bump girl!!!!!!

 

[Sassy_TTC]

Mel - I like your thinking, so on your pretend sickies you just have a duvet day, sounds good to me!

Jaymes - I have always wanted to be short (I'm 5, 8) but never thought about the effect height would have when being pregnant. I prob wont show until 20 weeks.xx

 

[Sassy_TTC]

Vicky - Are we going to get a pink bump pic from you?? We can compare yours, Mels and Jaymes and guess the sex! xx

 

[msarkozi]

oh yes, I think Vicky needs one too

 

[vickyd]

Ill take a pic when i get a bump!!!!! Im exactly the same like before....i still fit in my tight jeans!!!!!!!

 

[yogi77]

Hey ladies just wanted to say hi and I love reading everyone's posts. It keeps me going through this hard time. I'm starting to feel a little bit better and trying to stay positive and now I'm just waiting to ovulate. I haven't used an OPK's yet because I don't know if it's worth it or not...

I still find it hard to talk to friends and I didn't go to my friends birthday dinner party last night because I didn't want to face any questions from people like "are you going to have babies soon?"..."when are you going to have babies??"...I would have probably burst into tears on the spot. I swear I will never ask anyone that question ever again!!

Jaymes that is a great bump pic for so early!! If you are having ms I wouldn't worry at all! My SIL is 17 weeks and has been bleeding throughout her entire pregnancy so far. It obviously drives her crazy with stress but everything is ok.

Looking forward to seeing your bump pic Melissa!

 

[vickyd]

Yogi i think its best if you only go to social events you feel comfortable with. I always wondered why people asked others when they will be having babies...even before my losses i always thought that it was an insensitive question to ask as you never know if the couple is having fertility issues or what....Whenever someone asks me that now i always respond with " Why are you so interested in my reproductive activities???? you need a surrogate???" It shuts them up pretty quick!!!!!

 

[yogi77]

Yogi i think its best if you only go to social events you feel comfortable with. I always wondered why people asked others when they will be having babies...even before my losses i always thought that it was an insensitive question to ask as you never know if the couple is having fertility issues or what....Whenever someone asks me that now i always respond with " Why are you so interested in my reproductive activities???? you need a surrogate???" It shuts them up pretty quick!!!!!

hahaha love it... I must just have to try something like that next time I hear those questions!!

 

[msarkozi]

glad to hear you are feeling a bit better Yogi. It takes time for sure, and you will never forget, but the days do get easier as they go on.

 

[vickyd]

wonder how Meggles is doing at her new job...
Megg baby hope youre kicking ass!!!

 

[roonsma]

Hey babes!!! I got my NT scan and papp-a test today and all is great!!!! I cried the whole hour before i got in to see the doc, during the whole US and on the car drive home....!!!! My eyes are like button holes at the mo and my nose looks like im going through bird flu!!!

Im sooo releived i cant put it into words.... The specialist said LO is most probably a girl!

Mel you just described my ultimate nightmare....living next door to someone from work....Seriously i got goose bumps just thinking about it...

Nice one Vicky!!

 

[msarkozi]

Roonsma - how are you? we haven't heard from you in awhile....hope all is well!

I just ordered my first thing for the baby....I LOVE it!!!

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Gorgeous mel, perfect for those cold winters in Canada!

 

[msarkozi]

that was my thoughts too we can now shop online from GAP, so I did, lol.....my child is going to be my little snuggly bear, whethere they like it or not!

 

[roonsma]

Roonsma - how are you? we haven't heard from you in awhile....hope all is well!

I just ordered my first thing for the baby....I LOVE it!!!

Hi i'm fine thanks for asking, everything seems to be ok! I still follow the disco thread to see how you gals are getting on.

Loving your snuggly suit for the little one x

 

[Allie84]

Hi roonsma! :wave:

Vicky, omg that is fantastic news!!

yogi, we have all been there and it's so tough to have to think about things like what someone will say at a get together,etc...stuff you never thought of before. Do what you feel comfortable with....screw what anyone thinks. That was my attitude anyways, ha. Sorry for your loss.

Jaymes, omg that is a massive and super cute bump!

I can't wait to see more bump pics. Vicky, no worries on the lack of bump, my good friend (who is about where i would have been sans miscarriage ) lost 10 lbs during her 1st trimester. She's at 20 weeks and finally has a bump.

Megg, how was your first day?

I start my new position at 7 am tomorrow and I'm super nervous but getting excited. I'm going shopping for more clothes tonight haha. I need my 'first day at school' outfit.

 

[LucyJ]

Oh my god mel that is gorgeous so happy for you cant wait to see pic of your bump.

Jaymes love the picture hope your ok try not to worry

woo hoo Vicky so happy it all went well for you

Allie hope the leaves soon.

Yogi pleased your starting to feel a bit better I totally understand you not going out it took me ages before I felt ready to go and see people and then I had to have my hubby with me even then I did it in real baby steps literaly seeing close friends for short amounts of time and they knew what I had been through. Give yourself time and do things when you feel ready. We're all here for you.

AFM: well I am packing after nearly two weeks at my mum and dads I'm going back tomorrow. We are taking my niece back home to her mum then my parents are taking me home then they are going down to my brothers to see their new Grandson and help abit. I'm looking forward to seeing hubby (he went back last sunday as he had to work this week) and checking house it still in one piece!! Think I'll be Ov this weekend so I know what we will be doing over the bank holiday

 

[msarkozi]

lol, that's awesome Allie! I hope you enjoy your first day tomorrow

have you had a scan at all yet roonsma?

 

[LucyJ]

Allie hope all goes well for you tomorrow enjoy and good luck!! Have fun shopping.

 

[roonsma]

lol, that's awesome Allie! I hope you enjoy your first day tomorrow

have you had a scan at all yet roonsma?

Yes, had one at 7+4 which now seems aaaaages ago! all was good then and i've still got symptoms and the start of a bump(i think) so hoping all is great still. Next scan is the NT one and its next tues... pooping my pants.

Hi Allie! xx