Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[LucyJ]

Nato and sparkly massive I am sure everything is alright but its scary for sure.

My spotting stopped at the weekend but have been getting loads of cramping on and off. Keep telling myself to stay calm. Other than that Ive had slight nausea very dizzy and my skin has flared up.

Nato love that Elosie has been spotted and not surprised shes beautiful.

Thanks Allie.

 

[NatoPMT]

Luce they sound like good signs, its so nerve wracking. This bit is never going to be easy for any of us

Im becoming a bit resigned now, my boob soreness has gone completely in my left boob, and reduced massively in the other. They were starting the day less sore and getting more sore by evening, but its evening now and nothing.

Eloise saw me pressing them to check for pain and crawled over and put her hand on my boob.

 

[Round2]

I'm sure you've heard a million similar stories...but you can never hear enough....

I had bright red spotting at 6w2d with Bryce. I freaked out, assumed it was all over...even had a glass wine.

 

[msarkozi]

Sparkly, Nato, and Luce! I am sure those beans are hanging on. You will get through these weeks and then hopefully can relax a little more.

I had a red bleed with Kash just after 7 weeks and it was nothing at all. And those symptoms can come and go, so try to not freak out Nato...can you go get checked out at all to help relieve your fears?

 

[NatoPMT]

I'm sure you've heard a million similar stories...but you can never hear enough....

I had bright red spotting at 6w2d with Bryce. I freaked out, assumed it was all over...even had a glass wine.

youre right, can never hear too many 'it was ok' stories!

I have been flirting with the idea of getting some cigs, but not falling for that one just yet

 

[NatoPMT]

Sparkly, Nato, and Luce! I am sure those beans are hanging on. You will get through these weeks and then hopefully can relax a little more.

I had a red bleed with Kash just after 7 weeks and it was nothing at all. And those symptoms can come and go, so try to not freak out Nato...can you go get checked out at all to help relieve your fears?

happy 14 weeks!

I was going to wait until I got referred to whichever hospital I chose, but I think Im going to go to the University College Hospital EPU on Wednesday morning - they wont have my current pregnancy registered so not sure if they will see me, will call them tomorrow to ask

 

[msarkozi]

I hope the see you. It always helps to have that scan and know that everything is ok. I still have to wait another 6 weeks at least to have a first one!!! :/ Big hugs though....I hope you are going to be able to sleep tonight and get some rest

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Hope you're ok Nato, try not to panic. I too had major bleed at about 5-6 weeks and everything was fine.

Yeah I had a spa day on my own today and it was very relaxing and lovely. And I have a day off tomorrow too where I plan to get loads done!

 

[NatoPMT]

Thanks Mel & Cesca (glad you had a lovely time spa-ing it up)

the spotting has got a bit brighter, i am getting scared now. I don't want to lose this baby, and i don't want to experience another mc. I am a bit upset and tearful but still hopeful.

 

[Sugarlove2]

Haven't read back fully yet, but stay try and stay calm Nato. Have you got any pain? I'm another one who had bright red bleeding around implantation time when I was preggers last time and also a bleed at 17 weeks which turned out to be nothing. Boob soreness can come and go too, so that doesn't mean anything. Hope you can get seen soon for a scan.

 

[Sugarlove2]

Also Nato, in response to your post when you were asking about the anxiety meds. About 3 years ago, I came off the meds altogether. Reduced really slowly and felt truly awful with withdrawal symptoms, then crashed completely when off them and ended up on a different drug. The first antid's I was on are renown as being very difficult to come off. The ones I'm on now are easier, but tbh I'm too scared to try. When I reduced when I was preggers with Charlotte, my anxiety rocketed. I believe my problem is mainly chemical and the meds seem to really help, alongside CBT techniques for when I feel panicky. Meds aren't for everyone, but they have really helped me when nothing else did. I would love to be taking nothing, but just can't see it happening at least not at the moment.

Cesca, I hope you've had a fab spa day and the counselling helps with your feelings of guilt. I'm sure you're a fantastic Mother.

Allie, hope you enjoyed your trip, loved the pics on fb!

 

[msarkozi]

Nato!!

glad you enjoyed your spa day Cesca!

 

[LucyJ]

Nato first off secondly try not to panic I had bleeding and spotting for the first 11 weeks of my pregnancy with Benjamin.

Hope you can get a scan tomorrow xx

 

[roonsma]

Just popping in with support for ALL the Disco Preggo's

I've got everything crossed that you'll all have bouncing babies this year

I tinkled a Lindt rabbits bell in ASDA on Saturday for you all xxxx

 

[Allie84]

to Nato, Lucy and Sparkly!!!

Add me to the list of symptom losers and spotters....I spotted pink for weeks with Alistair. I think it may have been cervical irritation due to progesterone suppositories, though. And I lost boob soreness all the time. I was constantly poking at my boobs. I spotted red after my scans, for no reason. I actually had random little red spotting most of the way through (like specks).

I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you girls, but I totally understand that no matter how many stories you hear the fear doesn't subside. There's little more disheartening than the feeling of your stomach dropping when you go to the bathroom and see blood while pregnant, I'm convinced. It's an awful feeling, I'm so sorry girls!!

 

[NatoPMT]

full on red bleeding now, but no pain and no cramps - i can feel it but not in a very worrying way yet. Going to go to bed in case i need some sleep before the pain starts. Hopefully it won't.

it does help to know so many successful pregnancies had bleeds. Thanks for the support.

 

[Sugarlove2]

Hope you manage to get a good nights sleep Nato. Take it easy x

 

[VGibs]

Lord...fingers crossed love

 

[LucyJ]

Thinking of you hope you manage to get some sleep

 

[msarkozi]

praying for little nato bean!