Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[VGibs]

Sass - You didn't come off rudely! No worries there love. I was just being straightforward as I tend to get flowery with my words when trying to explain something important. I hope things turn around for you, your husband sounds like a brick wall though. No moving and the only emotion he projects is anger and indifference.

Allie - Feel better lady! This flu season is killer!

Luce - If it helps I can't see anything on FB about your post :S

Vick - 4000 Euros sounds like a whole lot...I may google it to see how much it is in CDN...HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[VGibs]

I was wondering what beetle crushers are as well? I'm imagining insane workman's boots.

 

[NatoPMT]

teddy boy shoes

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=b...620QW0q4GAAw&ved=0CAoQ_AUoAA&biw=1248&bih=628

not really worn in the 50's but an 80's exaggeration of 50's style

 

[VGibs]

Sooooo whats a teddy boy? LOL

 

[NatoPMT]

Just to update on the mc, the bleeding stopped yesterday and I did a Frer this morning, very very very faint positive....like Eloise's 8dpo line. Very sad to be looking at a line for this reason.

 

[vickyd]

Nato so sorry hun....

 

[Sparkly]

Just to update on the mc, the bleeding stopped yesterday and I did a Frer this morning, very very very faint positive....like Eloise's 8dpo line. Very sad to be looking at a line for this reason.

 

[VGibs]

Sorry love

 

[LucyJ]

Thanks for all the support yesterday ladies

Sassy I think couples counsilling is good idea and I am so sorry danny reacted that way does seem like he doesnt want to deal with whats going on Hope you can find a way through this.

Nato I am so sorry hun

 

[Allie84]

Thanks for the update, Nato, I was thinking about you and I'm "glad" the line is getting fainter. How are you holding up today?

 

[msarkozi]

Nato

 

[heart tree]

I'm so sorry Nato.

 

[Sassy_TTC]

So sorry NATO, so unfair

 

[Round2]

Sorry Nato, so sad. But I am relieved to hear that it's not sounding like an ectopic.

 

[NatoPMT]

Thanks all

Rounders, I have another test to do on Tuesday so fingers crossed its negative. I think it will be - the last of the boob soreness has gone.

we are going to start trying straight away and not wait - can you ov 14 days after the negative does anyone know, i will have a quick google though

CBB has started again so I am rolling up my sleeves on digital spy again which is a great distraction.

My little weasel has just been gorgeous this weekend. I took her to see the police horses during the arsenal match today and she loved them, she kept doing giddy up in her pram - i took her out and she touched the horses nose

Sassy, how are you sweetie?

hope the beans and bumps are all doing well. I cant remember, am i TTC with anyone, Vic, have you started yet?

 

[heart tree]

Nato I think that's a very good plan. I think you might OV 14 days later, but could be wrong about that. I feel confident the test will get lighter given that it's already gotten lighter. I will definitely not be joining you in the ttc journey at the moment, but will be rooting for you on the sidelines.

Eloise sounds so lovely.

I decided that instead of broaching my issues with Tim in a letter or sit down manner, I would do it in small bits. For instance, we were giving Delilah a bath and I told him that he was going to clean the bathroom this weekend as it was disgusting. Then I told him he was going to help put her room in order as it was a mess. I basically stayed in the present and told him what needed to get done. He's very receptive to that. I really didn't feel like getting my emotions involved in it. Moving forward, I need to remember to be very specific with him. Instead of asking him to have the house clean, I need to tell him what I want done. He did mention that he cleaned the kitchen and I told him it wasn't to my standard. Again, he agreed. I realize that we just have different thoughts about what defines clean. We're getting along better than I thought. He has been helping a ton with Delilah and has been overall really great. It's clear how much he missed us. He was just hovering over me as I was typing this and I had to tell him to go away. LOL. He wants to be close to me all the time right now. Funny how men think!

 

[VGibs]

NATO....damn iPhone...anywho. I am TTC at the moment. Supposed to be baby dancing tonight but I am burning with fever and now feeling queezy so I'm doubting any BD will take place.

 

[msarkozi]

you certainly can Nato (I was pregnant with Kash right after I miscarried - they moved my date even to the miscarriage date to give me Kash's due date). I am so glad to hear you are going to start trying again. I am hoping all the best for you

That is great Hearty that everything is going good with you and Tim. Sometimes men just need to be told straight out. I still haven't found what works with Gord though lol!

Hope everyone had a great weekend.....

Hello there yogi

 

[Sparkly]

Nato - Just checking my charts and I usually ov around 3 weeks after a m/c, and it's usually a powerful one with tons of EWCM. I believe that it's true that you are more fertile at this time. Best of luck

Hearty - I have found over the years that the only way to effectively communicate with my husband is be be direct and straight and specific. His cleanliness standards are not as high as mine but I've had to accept this as at least a cleaner kitchen is cleaner than a dirty one IYSWIM

 

[Sassy_TTC]

NATO - I always use to ovulate 2-3 weeks after a negative test following mc, good for you for getting straight back in the game!

Afm: I'm okay, considering! Saturday night we spoke, I explained as much as I could, how unhappy I was, how we wasn't working, how we could maybe fix things, that I think counselling was worth a shot, that I thought he was a brilliant dad and that I would never ever make it hard for him to see the kids! His reply "why don't you wanna have sex with me anymore?" I said "because we have no protection!" (I'm not on the pill or anything and we haven't used condoms in years tmi)!

You know what he did! Went out and bought condoms!!! We obviously didn't have sex and he sulked all day yesterday! We then got into bed last night and he cuddled me then flew off on one saying "you're making a mug of me, what kind of marriage is this, you're fucking ridiculous"! I said nothing and went to sleep!

I'm done! That was the final straw