Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[LucyJ]

Raz I think once you've suffered a loss it's hard to face a scan with pure hope and exictment because your aware of the pitfalls but you have to have faith in your little ones the spotting has stopped your previous scans have all be good so I'm sure your little one is fine and your scan will be brilliant. Can you speak to your midwife for reassurance. Symptoms do come and go you still have some and thats a good sign try not to worry I wish I could come and give you a big

 

[Dazed]

Thanks Lucy and Raz.
I went through the numbers rising and it could be that IF I get a bfp it might not be until the 8th.
As for my rant, I'm just going to do it already because as Meg put it, I just need to get it "on paper". I just can't shake the feeling that its never going to happen for me. We have been trying for a year and a half with one mc and its coming up quickly for a year since the mc. I feel like my body is failing me and I am failing my hubby. I also fear that if I can't get pregnant again I may resent my dog for possibly causing me to lose the one little one I would have been blessed with. We always said if we can't get pregnant we would just make our fur family bigger, but I don't think we can exactly do that with all the animals we currently have. I feel doomed!!!

 

[NatoPMT]

OMG Cesca, how clear is that picture!! thats amazing.

Razzers Im out this month, Im on CD9 and husband is in Hong Kong this morning. Australia tonight. No one can fire that far.

will say hello to you Lucy later, im supoposed to be doing work.

 

[Razcox]

Lucy - Thanks hun! I think i am having problems thinking its going to be good news because i still dont truely believe this is going to happen for us. Give me an hour an i'm sure i be more positive though . .

 

[pregoinnorge]

I'm so grateful to Amanda for the past two nights - you helped me so much! I just hope that I can repay you somehow. What a selfless thing to do to stay on here all evening...

All of you girls are so wonderful at providing support, comfort, and advice, even though you are at times suffering yourselves.

 

[sugarlove]

Great scan pic Cesca

Raz, I've heard of loads of pg girls saying that they don't think there is a baby in their tummy, as they have no symptoms. I'm sure everything is fine. Good luck with your scan, can't wait to see pics x

Amy, I too got loads of nasty pain before the spotting with my mc, so I hope it's a positive sign for you

Allie, I'm off to have a look at your chart sweetie!

Dazed, I'm there with you hunni, 13 months of ttc with 1 mc. Why would you blame your dog? Did he cause a mc? If I don't get pg in 6 months, I'm getting another dog. At least my furry friend will love me

Thanks for the support ladies. I've started spotting and cramping so looks like the evil bitch will be on her way soon. That will make another LP of 8 days. Pathetic! I'm going to look at buying some progesterone supplements online. Sick of waiting for fucking doctors excuse the rant! Ringing up GP later to get progesterone results from second 7dpo blood test, no doubt they will be shocking since they were only done yesterday!

Hi to all the other disco ladies
x

 

[jenny25]

Great scan pic Cesca

Raz, I've heard of loads of pg girls saying that they don't think there is a baby in their tummy, as they have no symptoms. I'm sure everything is fine. Good luck with your scan, can't wait to see pics x

Amy, I too got loads of nasty pain before the spotting with my mc, so I hope it's a positive sign for you

Allie, I'm off to have a look at your chart sweetie!

Dazed, I'm there with you hunni, 13 months of ttc with 1 mc. Why would you blame your dog? Did he cause a mc? If I don't get pg in 6 months, I'm getting another dog. At least my furry friend will love me

Thanks for the support ladies. I've started spotting and cramping so looks like the evil bitch will be on her way soon. That will make another LP of 8 days. Pathetic! I'm going to look at buying some progesterone supplements online. Sick of waiting for fucking doctors excuse the rant! Ringing up GP later to get progesterone results from second 7dpo blood test, no doubt they will be shocking since they were only done yesterday!

Hi to all the other disco ladies
x

i have progesterone pessarys if you want them their called cyclogest 200mg i got them when i was pregnant hun from the doc so your more than welcome to have them i have around 3 packets of 15 xx

 

[sugarlove]

thanks Jenny, that's really kind. Do you think it will be ok to start using them after ov next month? They aren't dangerous or anything are they? Hearty, I know you use them, what do you reckon?

I'll get my blood results this afternoon, and if the progesterone is low again, that confirms the diagnosis really of a short LP!

Let me know how much you will need for the for the postage Jenny, and I can sort it out.

Thanks
x

 

[Dazed]

Sugar, here is my story.
I found out I was pregnant on a Tuesday, had all the AF cramps and everything. The cramps were tolerable with a few REALLY bad ones. Friday night it was starting to snow, so that following morning my husky knew it was really cold outside and was really super excited to get outside. I was lying in bed on my back when she jumps about 3 feet straight from the floor to directly on my stomach. Later that morning I started spotting. It may just be coinsidence, but we will never know.

 

[jenny25]

yeah its safe hun i got prescribed it from my gyne doc it was an action plan to help progesterone levels so i wouldnt mc you can either put it up the noo noo or the bum i know its funny but i prefer the bum so none of the bits fell out lol dont worry hun im not gonna ask for postage for it call it a christmas gift from me , it will be same to use after you ov just make sure you confirm ov first with the temp shift on bbt and use it i was told too use 400 mg one in the morning and evening now its your choice on how much you would like to use xxx

 

[sugarlove]

Dazed, that's so sad. I suppose you will never know whether it was the dog jumping on you that caused the mc, but even if it was, it was just a terrible accident. My dog is always hoofing on my stomach and climbing all over me. They get so excited sometimes. I suppose when you get your BFP, you will just have to be extra careful with the doggie jumping on you. I hope you get your BFP soon


Jenny, that's really kind of you. Have just been googling it, and was reading a thread about whether to put it backdoor or not I'll wait 1 more week till my rearranged appt with gynae, and if she won't prescribe it, I will take you up on your kind offer. I've got plenty of time till I ov anyway if the witch is just on her evil way now!
x

 

[jenny25]

your welcome sweetie just let me know asap and i will get it out to you as soon as cause of the christmas period so i can post it next thus depending on your appointment time xx

 

[LucyJ]

Girls need advice I did an OPK this morning and it was positive had a positive one on friday and sunday (forgot to do one on sat and didnt have any to do one yesterday bought some more this morning when I went shopping) thought I ov yesterday but not so sure now have included a pic what do you think it means:

 

[Dazed]

I know it was an accident.

 

[jenny25]

im not sure hun maybe your body has been trying to ovulate do you use bbt charts ? xx

 

[LucyJ]

no I don't I think if it doesn't work for me this month I may start charting. I never have before as I dont tend to get up at the same time as I work as a supply teacher so sometime I'm up early for work other times I'm just at home so get up a bit later depending on what kind of night I have not a great sleeper.

Its so frustrating I hate not knowing what my bodys doing I've had ovulation type pains and all my normal symptoms of ov as well as few others been very hormonal the last couple of days.

 

[MinnieMone]

hi everyone, I've taken a little break away from bnb just to get a bit of perspective, spent a week at my folks down in kent, snowed in, with lovely roaring fires and long dog walks... just what i needed. back in london now and in the middle of first AF since mc (I had thought I was pregnant again but in hindsight I'm glad it didn't happen so soon, I don't think I'm ready yet). You have all been very chatty so i've not caught up fully yet.

Amy - so sorry that your bleeding, as the others have said there still may be hope, though I know that when you know, you just know. Big hug and take good care of yourself till your lovely hubby arrives for lots of cuddles on Thursday. F*ck work they will cope, you need to focus on yourself first.

Meggs - that BFP WILL be real soon, believe! Good luck today, will check in later for an update.

Sugar - I don't know in's and out's of progresterone, I took cytoglyst 400mg at BFP, although I don't have low prog it's just a standard that our specialist gives. I don't see why they wouldn't prescribe it for you, I don't think it harms. Boo for your cancelled appointment, you have to build yourself up for those eh, and then when they cancel it's like an andrenaline dump. Keep positive hun.

Nato - If you bonked yesterday at CD8 and say ov at CD13 then the sperm could have hung around non? Cool like and nonchalant but hanging around nonetheless We might miss ov this month as well as M is off up to Yorkshire earlier this year and I'm off down south, so I feel your pain. I'm already consoling myself with red wine and quality street.

Hearty - didn't you say you only ever get a BFP around 13/14dpo - are you still in with a chance?

Raz - aren't you around the time when symptoms start to wane, the womb is lifting away from the bladder which means less pee. The hormones settle as well.

Cesca/Cazz - So happy all was well at the scans - I can't even begin to imagine how happy you both must be feeling, it must be amazing joy.

Yogi - congratulations on your BFP, happy and healthy 9 months hun.

Sorry if I've left anyone out, so much to read, I had to skim.

We're getting our tree today, i've gone a bit mad on glitter football baubles for Mart to put on, mulled wine at the ready, it's our second christmas together so I feel very lucky.

Catch up later x

 

[sugarlove]

Are you sure they're postive Lucy? I know the LH can sometimes stay in the body for a while. Are they as dark as the ones last week? Maybe BD to cover all bases!

 

[sugarlove]

Hey Mone nice to hear from you, I was wondering where you'd got to.

Sorry you didn't get a BFP this month, but pleased you got AF without any problems. Sounds like your break away has done you the world of good

Wine and quality street sound like a good plan. I'm off out for a xmas do on Thurs. Was going to try to be good, but now since I know the bitch is on her way, I'm going to get rip roaring drunk

 

[jenny25]

i suggest hun just keep on bedding just now to cover basis if your in doubt get the clearblue digital ovulation ones those never fail me if i get the smiley face i know its real cause the opk strips stay a little positive for a bit longer so i know when i near ov i use it xxx