If your baby turns out to be in fact a BOY... you, as his mother, will be able to raise him to respect women. And your husband will be able to set a good example for how to treat women, which your son will be able to observe at home every day. We need more parents raising loving, respectful little boys...I was sensitive about having a son but I'm really careful that he never receives toy guns (not even water guns) and I also make sure there is no violence in cartoons he watches. His favorite TV character are Dora and Cailou so you DO have control of what he is exposed to and how he is brought up.