Hi all, just dropping in to say thanks for all the lovely messages after my disappointing scan. I'm feeling a little more optimistic than I was and I have been doing lots of reading online. I am also feeling a bit p***ed off at the doc that did the ultrasound.
I realised that evening that I hadn't emptied my bladder for the vaginal scan and I had gone with a moderately full bladder expecting to have an abdo scan attempted first. I have read online after a lot of searching that a full bladder can distort tranvaginal ultrasound pics and make things harder to see. He also didn't really search or press very hard to look for a yolk sac within the gestational sac - I will add he didn't seem at all bothered it was only a G sac.
He measured the sac as 14mm on the longest axis and everything I read said at 14mm it is the definitive cut off for seeing a yolk sac but the sac was oval and also things I read said the sac size should be calc'd by the average of 3 diameters on 3 axis which would make it a bit smaller.
Also I was 5w5d by LMP but my period was noticed at bedtime 11:30pm, if I'd gone to bed earlier I would probably be classing myself as 5w4d at the scan - again a cut off day for yolk sac appearance according to the literature so I guess if I was out a few days then that is possible.
I still don't think there is anyway I can be the 4weeks he suggested but I am optimistic again for my next scan - I am not paying for another private scan with him though! He recommended a rescan in 2-3weeks (most literature says to do in 7-10days) I have a NHS equiv scan booked for 3 weeks after that one anyway (nov 12th).
I'll probably keep my distance still until then as despite my renewed optimism I am trying not to focus on the pregnancy too much - just in case.
Thanks again, hope everybody continues to do well