Hi everyone!
Well I had my first midwife appointment on Tuesday and boy it was a long one! An hour and a half of paperwork, taking blood etc. I do have a scan date for 20th November when I will be 12 weeks exactly!
Now I hope you ladies don't mind but I just need a bit of a rant about work! Lol!
Basically everyone at work has to know I'm pregnant as I have to make changes to my work such as no heavy lifting, no contact with animals or chemicals. (I work as an assistant manager in a pet store for those wondering!)
Anyway last time I was pregnant I had the most supportive boss and team that would look out for me, assist me without me having to ask etc. but this time BOY are things different! My boss doesn't give a stuff about me, my deputy manager is just being generally funny with me, I'm constantly having to ask for help and having to explain why I can't carry out tasks that they just keep giving me. They were funny as hell with me because of how long my midwife appointment was and it's like they keep quizzing me because they don't believe me and I had to wait until 4:30pm for my dinner that day because "I'm sure you will have had something won't you." Basically I think she was trying to say I was so late because I must have stopped for lunch, however I told her id just had half a bread roll. And the same woman was making "jokes" about how often I'm going to the toilet saying "are you sure you're only 8 weeks pregnant with how often I keep seeing you go the toilet?" I mean for gods sake are they keeping tabs on me??
Sorry this is quite an essay! Anyway I feel sick, I still keep getting some pains low down in my stomach especially when I exert myself, I am so exhausted so my answer, I'm going on the sick! Screw them! I know I can self certify for a week anyway but do u think a doctor would give me a sick note for something pregnancy related?
Is anyone else having trouble with work or just me
It's stressing me out a little at the minute