So I need some advice. I've been getting the feeling like I need some time away from hubs. All we do lately is argue over stupid shit. Last week we even went like 3 days without even speaking. I've gotten to the point when he complains about something that I just say "ok" because anything else will cause a fight. He never says anything about being in a bad mood from work, but will just blow up when he gets home. Like yesterday, he seemed like he was in a bad mood when he walked thru the door, so I asked what's wrong. He says nothing. So I'm like okay come look at all the baby stuff I got from my friend today. I show him, he says "that's alot of stuff" and goes in the living room and sits down. Kinda made me sad because I was super excited about all of the stuff and thought he may be too, thought he'd wanna see the things she gave us rather than just looking at everything as a whole. When I brought it up to him that it upset me that he didn't seem like he gave a shit...started an argument. He hardly touches my belly and only does so when I get him to, only talks to the baby when I ask him to tell him good night and good morning. When I brought up that that makes me upset because I still feel like I'm the only one excited about it (i mean i know he'll be exicted when the baby is born, but it's not like he doesn't exist yet, he's just in my belly) it started a fight. I'm tired of the baby only hearing his voice when it's us arguing.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to be here feeling like I'm living with a roommate rather than my husband, but I don't want to end my marriage or anything. I just feel we need some time apart and idk how to go about doing that! :/ I definitely have a place to stay if we do spend some time apart, my dad lives across the street and has a guest room. uuuughgggh I just dont know what to do. I'm tired of arguing, I'm tired of crying, I'm tired of feeling alone, I'm tired of him picking fights with me, I'm tired of having to be an ass to him to defend myself when he's a dick for no reason. When we argue he says stuff like why does everyone give me shit. I try to point out to him that when he's in a bad mood, everyone around him picks up on that shit cuz he puts out a really strong vibe. The guys at work can tell when he's in a bad mood just by looking at him, same with his parents/brother/family, same with me. Yet he thinks we all have a problem. It's like he doesn't understand how his vibes and stuff effects others. Idk what his deal is... I'm just tired of it...