Bio- Why don't you talk to her? I think it'd be a big relief for you, also it'll avoid confusion by her not knowing why you may not not seem so "over joyed" about the baby. She may be more sympathetic than you might think.
Snowflakes- That sounds like a NIGHTMARE. I'm soooo not a morning person >.< That would kill me. Props to you though, anything for that BFP :]