swanxxsong
pregnant w my rainbow!
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Aw, Jokerette. I'm so glad I'm not alone. I keep fearing I'm just overly neurotic (well okay, I am anyway haha) with my concerns. But it's just scary sometimes.
I don't believe they're very common - my sister keeps reminding me that they may seem more common on the boards because women who go through that tend to come to the boards for support. Which does make sense, when I consider that aspect of it. If I went through such a tragedy, I'd look for a support group for such. I've also read that people are more aware of them happening now, as more women get early scans than in past decades. Which also makes sense, when I consider that aspect of it. My mom never had a sonogram or anything.
I keep telling myself that statisically, seeing a heartbeat and healthy baby at 9 weeks means my chances dropped to 3%, and that I only have a few days until I get confirmation of things being as they are. But I guess I keep stumbling across all these threads about MMCs, I'm stressing myself out more than necessary. Sure, the chance always exists, but I need to accept that and ride it out, rather than expect the worst always.
I love the forums but sometimes they set me into such a panic! lol.
I don't believe they're very common - my sister keeps reminding me that they may seem more common on the boards because women who go through that tend to come to the boards for support. Which does make sense, when I consider that aspect of it. If I went through such a tragedy, I'd look for a support group for such. I've also read that people are more aware of them happening now, as more women get early scans than in past decades. Which also makes sense, when I consider that aspect of it. My mom never had a sonogram or anything.
I keep telling myself that statisically, seeing a heartbeat and healthy baby at 9 weeks means my chances dropped to 3%, and that I only have a few days until I get confirmation of things being as they are. But I guess I keep stumbling across all these threads about MMCs, I'm stressing myself out more than necessary. Sure, the chance always exists, but I need to accept that and ride it out, rather than expect the worst always.
I love the forums but sometimes they set me into such a panic! lol.