sparklez
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I can't stop crying. Besides this massive hemeroid that's killing me I have so much pressure pain in my vag that I swear she's going to fall out. Is there anyway to be in labor and not have contractions? Besides back labor because I don't have back pain. I'm ok when I'm sitting down pretty much but if I walk anywhere it hurts so bad. I can't believe what a baby I am being. I was not like this with DS. This is so different. I do have pain in my back but it not my lower back it's up in my shoulders like a gas bubble pain if you have had that.
Sorry for the rant but I just can't take it anymore.
I wonder if the end o pregnancy sucks so u don't mind giving birth do its over.
I had back pain for 2/3 days before my waters went, put it down to her getting heavier but think it was a sign of imminent labour.
Also found out she was OP (but I didn't have back pain during labour) which goes some way to explaining why labour was so long. can't wait to get my notes and find out what actually happened! the midwives were rubbish at keeping us informed and kept contradicting each other and even themselves. Had a meeting with the supervisor of midwives yesterday and got a few questions answered she kept pushing us for debrief with the consultant but we put her off (about 6 times) and kept asking for a copy of the notes, she gave up in the end but it's really geting to me that every midwife we speak to says "oh yes I've discussed it with ....(midwife that was there)" or "I've read your notes so can answer your questions" well that's great for you but I want to read the notes myself not just get told select bits by you. Rant over