my ex husband knows i'm really sentimental, we were still together for my birthday - my first with our baby - and i know it sounds naff but at the time i told him all i wanted was a birthday card from my son, nothing else. i know it's stupid but i actually thought he might still think of getting me a mothers day card too but he didn't. i don't know why i'm so sad about it, there's no reason he would but if it was his first fathers day i would have got him a card from the baby, it's not like it means anythng between us two has changed. i guess i'm just still devastated that he doesn't care anymore