My dh is the same, I wanted to book a 4d scan for daddy's day so we could get a good look at baby, it is my 5th baby, our 2nd together and so will be our last together because it took us so long to conceive and I am no spring chicken in terms of baby making!
Anyway he saw the posters for it when we went for our 12 week scan and he started going on and on about what a waste of money it was, and so i did say well i was planning one, he said 'oh no don't bother we can get the baby's picture taken when its born, i would prefer that!'
But i would love a 4d scan, having never had one, they look fab, and they are only £65 at our local hospital, which i though was brilliant!
So i am not sure now if i should book one and take mil along who would be thrilled to come and would probably even offer to pay half!! My friend has said she would love to come too, so dh is gonna miss out if he is not interested, but i know he would be facinated with it all if he did come, anyway it leaves me in a total dilema about what to do, i really dont want to undermine him so i may just have to tell him how much i want one!
Although we could spend the money on something else i have just spent £110 on the car getting an mot and service, and just about to spend £175 on car tax and that is b4 my insurance is due in April, and all that to keep a car on the road, compared to £65 to see my baby seems a small amount in comparison to what everything else costs, it is the same cost as a tank of fuel!!
I hope you manage to decide what to do, just so you know you are not alone, i really thought my dh would be the only dh who had that attitude but it must be a man thing, i am less upset by his response now i know its fairly usual!!