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I don't want to offend anyone but I need to say this.
I've been reading lots of birth stories that seem to say that they were going to be taken for a c-section but then they just pushed with all their might to avoid it and then baby was born naturally. I feel like people (on here and in my real life) think that I didn't try hard enough to avoid a c-section.
But I really did I didn't want one and I did push really really hard for a really really long time. If I could go back I'd refuse the c-section and try harder for a bit longer but at the time it didn't seem like there was an option. Maybe there wasn't an option but I think in society people still think c-section mummy's just didn't try hard enough
I've been reading lots of birth stories that seem to say that they were going to be taken for a c-section but then they just pushed with all their might to avoid it and then baby was born naturally. I feel like people (on here and in my real life) think that I didn't try hard enough to avoid a c-section.
But I really did I didn't want one and I did push really really hard for a really really long time. If I could go back I'd refuse the c-section and try harder for a bit longer but at the time it didn't seem like there was an option. Maybe there wasn't an option but I think in society people still think c-section mummy's just didn't try hard enough