I just have to get this out somewhere among people who understand because it's an awful place to be in. Long story short, it's coming up on a year this moth since we found out we were pregnant. I had one 2nd TM MC and one 1st TM MC since then. We were then extremely far into the foster parent application process and our hope was yet again brutally taken away when they suddenly deferred our application. After a year of these emotional highs and lows I'm having a really hard time keeping my emotional sanity. It's so hard to see so many people in the past year get pregnant and have their babies, like its easy peasy!
In the past week I found out one of my friends is pregnant and have felt a lot of resentment and jealousy rather than excitement. It just breaks my heart that I struggle to celebrate with them but how can I when they have something I so desperately want but was taken away? Then tonight I find out my sister is 12weeks pregnant. Thankfully I don't feel anything negative towards her but the best I can do is feel neutral. I just want this emotional battle to end. It's been a long year of faking excitement and happiness when all I want to do is curl up and cry every time I hear someone else receives the precious gift of a child, which was taken away from me.
That sounds horrible of me and it deeply concerns me that this is how I genuinely feel.
How do you deal with the conflicting emotions of having others in your life who are pregnant and having babies? I'm desperate because this is just tortuous and I have tried so hard!
In the past week I found out one of my friends is pregnant and have felt a lot of resentment and jealousy rather than excitement. It just breaks my heart that I struggle to celebrate with them but how can I when they have something I so desperately want but was taken away? Then tonight I find out my sister is 12weeks pregnant. Thankfully I don't feel anything negative towards her but the best I can do is feel neutral. I just want this emotional battle to end. It's been a long year of faking excitement and happiness when all I want to do is curl up and cry every time I hear someone else receives the precious gift of a child, which was taken away from me.
That sounds horrible of me and it deeply concerns me that this is how I genuinely feel.
How do you deal with the conflicting emotions of having others in your life who are pregnant and having babies? I'm desperate because this is just tortuous and I have tried so hard!