Final two week stretch - anyone with me??

Hi Eleanor!! Welcome. Ooh what signs have you had?? I've had a couple of false alarms, it's so disappointing! Do you know what flavour you are having?

I've been having contractions along with extra BH's, and I'm dilated "some", but my MW hasn't told me how much! LO has dropped a fair bit and I've had a surge of Relaxin, been extra sick and had extra (loose) bowel movements (so classy :haha:), all of which my MW said are signs labour is close apparently- we'll see! Nope, we're team yellow, I'm excited to find out! :). Do you know what you're having?
 
BabyJayne: I really hope things start for you soon!

Eleanor ace: Hopefully not much longer with the signs you're having! Did you go over with your daughter? Jealous over your signs! I'd love to be having some right now!

choc: I bet it's frustrating :( Did you go over with your first? Good luck with your appointment tomorrow!

Laura: That's a bummer about the sweep! Especially with your blood pressure. Are they going to monitor your blood pressure throughout the week?



Normally my left foot swells more than my right, but today my right is worse than my left and it stings. It feels like I'm trying to walk with a very thick sock on.

I'm having reduced movements today. I just recently had lunch which didn't do anything, so I'm about to do some juice to see if that helps. Otherwise I'll be calling. Which is annoying. It's bad enough going through this for one day, but it's hard going through this day after day. He was good the last two days, but that's been it.

I'm just getting anxious about this. I know I still have SOME time, but vbac with spontaneous labor is better as well being in labor closer to 40 weeks. At most I have until 41 weeks (unless the OB changes her mind), and I'm just praying I'm not induced as it can increase the risk for rupture, and I really don't think I'll go on my own.


And I just have to share:
 

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Yes spunky, I was induced cos I went overdue last time. My midwife said it wasn't common to happen again with second babies but I don't think I believe her anymore!
Hope your juice gets little one moving. I must admit I am totally paranoid about movement and can't wait for him to be here so I don't have to worry about it, and any worries I do have over him can be shared with dh. The whole movement worry is solely down to us to make the right decisions and I hate it.
 
No I'm not being monitored, I won't see anyone until next Monday. I'll be keeping an eye on it myself though.

Hope your movements improve. I'm like choc and hate the fact that I'm the only person who can judge what movements are normal ect it's like an extra amount of stress keeping track of it all. I'll be fine and then all of a sudden panic because I can't actually rememeber the last time I felt him move, so end up poking my belly.
 
BabyJayne: I really hope things start for you soon!

Eleanor ace: Hopefully not much longer with the signs you're having! Did you go over with your daughter? Jealous over your signs! I'd love to be having some right now!

choc: I bet it's frustrating :( Did you go over with your first? Good luck with your appointment tomorrow!

Laura: That's a bummer about the sweep! Especially with your blood pressure. Are they going to monitor your blood pressure throughout the week?



Normally my left foot swells more than my right, but today my right is worse than my left and it stings. It feels like I'm trying to walk with a very thick sock on.

I'm having reduced movements today. I just recently had lunch which didn't do anything, so I'm about to do some juice to see if that helps. Otherwise I'll be calling. Which is annoying. It's bad enough going through this for one day, but it's hard going through this day after day. He was good the last two days, but that's been it.

I'm just getting anxious about this. I know I still have SOME time, but vbac with spontaneous labor is better as well being in labor closer to 40 weeks. At most I have until 41 weeks (unless the OB changes her mind), and I'm just praying I'm not induced as it can increase the risk for rupture, and I really don't think I'll go on my own.


And I just have to share:

Yup, I had her at 41 weeks. I started contracting and dilated to 3cm at 36 weeks, so I don't imagine my signs will lead to anything anytime soon, although I'd quite like it if they would! Hope you get some progress soon- puuuuush! :haha:
 
I'm getting random mildly painful tightenings here, but not sure anything is really happening. I feel fine otherwise! I've lost a bit more plug too I think. Oh I hope its starting but I'm not getting my hopes up!

I know what you mean about movements - it's so stressful. I think I get that used to the movement that I don't take notice, and then I panic and think I haven't felt bubs when I probably have.
How are you now Spunky? Has bubs moved?
 
I think I'm getting tightnings - but then I think that it's just baby moving. Arghhh I hate the not knowing part. Why can't there be some sort of timer that let's you know when it's fully cooked? Haha.
 
Just started timing and I've had about 4 or 5 coming every 5-6 minutes and lasting between 30secs and a minute...
 
Fingers crossed babyjayne sounds promising.
 
choc: lol I'm not sure I quite believe that myself. I'm sure it's really up to the individual and baby. I actually googled this the other day because I was curious, and it looked like that it's not unusually to go over and be induced after your first.

I think movement worry really is one of the worst. If you think it's okay and it's really not, it can just really weigh on you that you didn't get it checked out. Then you feel stupid when you do get it checked out and everything is fine, regardless of all of the reassurance from the staff saying it's better to get checked.


xLaura: I really hope it's tightenings!

Are they at least having you call in if your b/p reaches a certain point? I'd imagine that has to be stressful trying to watch out for that.

I'm the same with the movements if I can't remember when I last felt them. If I wake up a little later in the day, I usually have a panicky morning as it's been so long since I've felt movement (because of sleeping), so then it just kind of turns it into a day of monitoring.

Why can't there be some sort of timer that let's you know when it's fully cooked? Haha.

:laugh2: That just gave me an image of a turkey cooking and having the little thing pop out when it's done lol


Eleanor ace: Oi! 3cm at 36 weeks with contracting and STILL going to 41 weeks? I think that would have driven me up a wall to go through that for 5 weeks with just waiting for something!

There's a song called "Push It". DH said I need to listen to it every day until he's born :laugh2:


BabyJayne: Oh! I really hope these are it for you :) You'll have to keep us posted on that!



He's moving... some. I'll probably still call though.

I had gone in last Wednesday evening for it. Even though he had started to move a little more while I was waiting for a call back, my midwife said to still go in to be safe and to call even if I have any doubts.

I have had about 10 movements in the required time, but I still don't feel comfortable with it. I know they run out of room, but for as much and as strong as he was moving the last 2 days, I don't buy that these considerably smaller movements are only because he's running out of room. I mean, it could be, but I don't know that for sure.

The movements have only been very subtle.

When I was in at 38, he met the quota for movements, but wasn't having good accelerations with the movements which had me monitored over night. So considering that information, I'm not sure I feel completely confident with just having subtle movements.

I'm sure he's fine, but I don't want to be the one to say that he is when I really have no way of telling.

He has the hiccups now, but if I don't get anything more significant here shortly, I'm going to call for my own reassurance.

I remember back when I was worried with DD, DH used to just roll his eyes. Fortunately everything was always fine with her, but I think when they kept me at 38 weeks for monitoring and a bpp the following morning, I think that worried him enough that he doesn't question when I say I'm going to call anymore.
 
Ooh BabyJayne I hope they carry on and get stronger!

Spunky: I was fine with it, as I wanted LO to stay put until 40 weeks, but I was glad she came spontaneously. The end if this pregnancy has been harder on me so now I'd be more than happy to go a few days early!

Does anyone have a feeling on which day your LO will come?
 
Ooh good luck BabyJayne and Laura! Although I am massively jealous!
 
Spunky just trust your instincts - it's better to go in 20 times and everything to be fine.

Thanks girls! Still contracting for about a minute every 4-6 minutes and it's been going on since 8 so maybe, just maybe, I'm getting somewhere! We've taken DD to my dads just to be on the safe side. Had to wake her, but thought it best to do now than have to rush or panic about her if things do move on. Surely this must be it, would be cruel if it wasn't!
 
That sounds very promising BabyJayne! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!



I went in and of course, once on the monitor, he was all over the place. Wish he'd done that before I made the trip! The doctor at the hospital did a check and I'm still only 1 cm. 60% effaced (not sure what I was at 38 weeks). He's at -3.

So in 2 weeks, I didn't budge. Not what I'd call encouraging. I don't know how it'll affect induction.

Logically I know the cervix doesn't mean much, but it's still so disappointing and discouraging. I've been crying since I got home over it. Which I know is lame, but I can't help it.
 
I've been having tightening/contractions all day. Lost my mucus plug late afternoon and just lost more. My contractions have been all over the place, but still there.
With my first baby my mucus plug went in the late morning, the show happened at 730 pm (thought my water broke but it wasnt) . And the next day he was here. So wondering if something similar is happening this time or DD is going to debut in her own way! Haha
Seeing lots of activity with baby movement today! Funny how it's on Labour Day! Wishing everyone good luck, happy deliveries!
 
Mine turned out to be nothing! Not that I expected them to!!

Hope you've got a little baby babyjayne ... It at least a good way there :thumbup: fingers crossed for you!


Beachbumbaby - sounds promising goodluck!
 
Spunky just trust your instincts - it's better to go in 20 times and everything to be fine.

Thanks girls! Still contracting for about a minute every 4-6 minutes and it's been going on since 8 so maybe, just maybe, I'm getting somewhere! We've taken DD to my dads just to be on the safe side. Had to wake her, but thought it best to do now than have to rush or panic about her if things do move on. Surely this must be it, would be cruel if it wasn't!

Oooh, hope that was/is it! :dance:

That sounds very promising BabyJayne! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!



I went in and of course, once on the monitor, he was all over the place. Wish he'd done that before I made the trip! The doctor at the hospital did a check and I'm still only 1 cm. 60% effaced (not sure what I was at 38 weeks). He's at -3.

So in 2 weeks, I didn't budge. Not what I'd call encouraging. I don't know how it'll affect induction.

Logically I know the cervix doesn't mean much, but it's still so disappointing and discouraging. I've been crying since I got home over it. Which I know is lame, but I can't help it.

So typical! Glad he behaved for the monitors though :). :hugs: for feeling downhearted about no change, but remember it could all change any minute!

I've been having tightening/contractions all day. Lost my mucus plug late afternoon and just lost more. My contractions have been all over the place, but still there.
With my first baby my mucus plug went in the late morning, the show happened at 730 pm (thought my water broke but it wasnt) . And the next day he was here. So wondering if something similar is happening this time or DD is going to debut in her own way! Haha
Seeing lots of activity with baby movement today! Funny how it's on Labour Day! Wishing everyone good luck, happy deliveries!

Oooh exciting! I don't know what labour day is but it sounds like an auspicious day to lose your plug!

Mine turned out to be nothing! Not that I expected them to!!

Hope you've got a little baby babyjayne ... It at least a good way there :thumbup: fingers crossed for you!


Beachbumbaby - sounds promising goodluck!

Urgh, dang those false signs! I had so many false starts and contractions which led to nothing with my 2nd that I didn't think I was in labour until I had to stop myself pushing her out on the toilet :haha:. Hopefully it has got you in a good position for labour at least :hugs:
 
Hi ladies! Betsi Charlotte was born at 1.42am weighing 6lb 2oz. OMG it was super super quick. When I'm home I'll give you the full story but she's was nearly born in the car! My notes say 1st stage one hour 10, second stage 2 mins!! She is absolutely beautiful. Needed blood sugars checked as she's classed as low birth weight so got to stay in tonight, which is a shame as they would have sent us home within hours xxx
 

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