That'll be so nice for your mom! How sweet. One of our best pictures of our son in the womb came from 16 weeks so I think you have a good chance of getting a good shot for yourself and your mom. It's such a special time! Oh gosh I would have loved to get some hand me downs. Our families did buy us some stuff which was super helpful but we bought all of the big stuff ourselves (since we're having 2 babies, it's sort of rude IMHO to expect people to buy the stroller and cribs and things, since we need 2) but they bought clothes, and towels, and all the little things babies need. I can't complain. Plus, I sort of like being able to pick out the things but it has cost us a lot of money and having some hand me downs would have been nice. Good news is that a lot of my friends just had babies and it's a mixture of girl and boy so I'm hoping maybe I'll get some hand me downs from them? We'll see.