Things are going well at our household. Finally. We're having some eating issues with Lucy but they are slowly being resolved.
On the post partum hormone front I am doing so much better. I haven't had a motherhood meltdown in 2 days and I think I am finally adjusted to accepting the sleep deprivation and ability to not do anything I used to do on my own time.
Lucy eating:
She is such a sleep baby. And when I say sleep baby I don't mean she sleeps a lot when she's not being stimulated. She sleeps through being stimulated and it has made it extremely difficult to make sure she gets enough calories to start gaining weight. She had been losing weight then she started gaining and yesterday we found out she plateaued. We think part of the problem is that Lucy has a very strong suck so when we gave her the bottle she would suck so hard but the flow of the nipple (even though we are using level 1 flow) was too much and she would choke and spit it up. We went down to a premie level nipple and she is doing much better with that it it's still very hard to get her to eat the proper amount because she is so sleepy. We have tried everything. Waking her up slowly, using a wet washcloth to dab her face to take her up. If anyone has any other suggestions I'm all for it. At least now with the premie nipple she is not spitting up as much so we know she's getting more of what we're measuring out for her but my gosh. It is hard to get that girl to stay awake. The bright side is that she will do amazing at her newborn photo shoot that we're having on Friday.
Oliver eating:
He is doing great. Yesterday at their weight check he had gained more weight. He is now at 4lbs7oz and almost to his birth weight. He gained 1.5 oz per day. The doctor was happy with that. He is using the level 1 nipple and really seems to have the suck/swallow/breathe reflexes sorted out. At least better than Lucy at this point. I am proud especially since he is my smaller baby. He does get soee but I've already noticed changes in him like before he never used to cry for anything (except if he was irritated). Now though, he cries when he's hungry!
Breastfeeding and pumping:
I called anlacttaion consultant that my friend used and who is covered by our insurance and she is coming out in Saturday to the house to evaluate latch, answer any questions I may have about pumping and nursing and to figure out a schedule that will work with our lifestyle. She did give me some pointers when we spoke over the phone the other day and they have been helping immensely. Currently the schedule is Feed them the breatmilk I have through a bottle that I pumped from the previous session, then supplement with formula, then nurse 1 baby in both breasts, then pump for 15-20 minutes. It takes a lot of time and it's mostly during the day that I nurse but it has been working. I don't nurse at night only so I can get some rest. If I nursed at night I literally would not get any sleep. The LC said this is totally acceptable and that it's so important to get rest. With this plan I'm getting about 60-80ml/pumping session and sometimes I get lucky and get more. I got 110ml yesterday in 1 session. I'm feeling more competent, loving, and just overall in a better mood.
Hope you're all doing well!!