I made it clear to DH that the only people that will be at max's first b-day are the people that are in his life currently , meaning all the other pains in the ass that claim to be in his family but never call to see him or hows hes doing can kiss my white behind lol
I am doing his party in the back yard at my MIL's house as it can hold about 30 ppl and thats more then enough to my liking ..plus I will be doing the pot luck idea ..sounds great