first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[Velathria]

Fertileflower thank you. I hope we do. although looks like I wont be able to BD for my ovulation because of some stupid paperwork
That is what is making me sad.

Gina: hopefully you have fun good luck for the tough mudder you can do it.

Lots of baby dust for everyone

 

[mininun1]

Have a great weekend Gina!! And everyone else as well- I hope it is relaxing and full of lovely fall weather

 

[FertileFlower]

Just something I stumbled upon while researching stuff.

According to the chinese lunar calendar, I would ovulate 24 Sep 2015 and have a Boy.
That is exactly the day all signs point that I had a mega early ovulation on. I don't subscribe to this at all, but it was an interesting coincidence.

I definitely did O. I have the now usual tww symptoms of being hungry and sleepy. Not so upset anymore.

Velathria, paper work should never come in the way of bd'ing! For shame! *hugs*

Mininun1 you have a great weekend too!!

Gina, have a wonderful trip!

 

[Velathria]

That sounds cool.. I really want a girl this time round but I'll be happy with whatever it is

Well I just found out that I will be able to move in with my boyfriend in time to BD on my ovulationperiod... so yay!!! Hope everyone had a good weekend. mine was alright.

 

[gina236]

Well guys I am alive! Made it through my first tough mudder! Boy am I sore though! Between the actual tough mudder and then sleeping on the ground for 2 nights in 40 degree weather my body hates me lol. Hope everyone is doing well. Im trying to catch up on everything.

 

[Velathria]

Yay gina!! You survived xD god I'd be dead by now xD
Looks like I'll be moving to my boyfriend on the 8th of October... at first I was worried we might not get my sons passport in time but we got it on Saturday haha... all is good again... so I have decided that October me and my boyfriend are just gonna BD whenever and just relax and be happy to be around each other and if it happens then I'm happy if not then we will really try again the month after. But most important is get us settled in the house and buy a car when I come over

 

[gina236]

I am pretty dead lol. Got a few days to recover then bd time! Lol. That's awesome that you will be moving in time. Waiting an entire month is so much worse than just the tww lol.

 

[Velathria]

Hey oh yeah go hop back on that horse xD me and my bf are gonna hit it as soon as I see him. It's been a whole month since we could BD and it's definitely over due xD your right a month is even worse then tww.
I wish you all good luck

 

[mininun1]

Yay Gina, you did it!! Congratulations! I'm sure you are glad it's over.

 

[gina236]

I am glad it's over but already planning the next one if it wasn't so cold we would do the one in new Jersey this November thats on my hubbys birthday but I'm pretty sure I'm already going to get sick from this one as it is. So we are thinking there is usually one in long Island NY that we will do next year I can't stop thinking today how much different it would have been if my friend was still alive. He was a party animal. All of us planned to stay up and party after the run and all ended up in bed by 10 haha. He would have partied until 2 am if we let him.

 

[Velathria]

Awww I'm sorry gina.. it's never easy when someone important to you is gone....I know that feeling...
But I'm happy you had fun. Better do it now though. When you have the baby it'll be harder to do things like that

@mininun how you feeling? Hope everything is going well with you

 

[gina236]

Yes it will be harder with a baby or pregnant but I'm okay with that. I will still do the run up to 4 months pregnant. After that I would just watch my dh. But once the kids get older they have the mini mudder that they can do

 

[Velathria]

That's really cool awww I bet they'd have lots of fun.

 

[gina236]

Your move is coming up quick! You ready yet? What does your son think about moving?

 

[Velathria]

I know !! I'm so excited but I still have a few more boxes to pack up. And finish up with the sale of my car. But it's coming along great. oh he is super excited!! He keeps talking about it. XD it's like an adventure for him I think. But I'm happy he is handling this so well.

 

[gina236]

That's awesome that he is so excited. It will definitely be an adventure! I think it's awesome when kids can be exposed to different cultures so young. They absorb and learn so much. Hopefully the move goes smoothly.

 

[Velathria]

I used to move alot when I was younger and I loved it. I think he will too and Ireland is such a beautiful country. I always knew I wouldn't stay in the same place. I can't wait to live in such a beautiful country. Especially it will help with my writing.

 

[gina236]

My friend did a semester in Ireland and couldn't stop talking about how gorgeous it was there. I would love to move around like that but could never do it. I get major anxiety when I am out of my comfort bubble lol. I can't even drive to places I don't know. It has always seemed like something I'd love to do but when it comes down to it I chicken out. Although I will get to Italy one day. At least for a week, hopefully more!

 

[Velathria]

Hahaha yeah I think it just depends on the person and italy is beautiful by the way. It's so romantic there. You and your husband should do that before the baby comes.. might help a little to relax and make the baby making work. I've read a few forums where some women wrote that after a long time of ttc that they go pregnant on vacation.

 

[gina236]

If I could afford it I totally would! I'm not even tracking what CD I am this month so hopefully that helps me stay relaxed. Now that we arent training as much my hubby will have time to study and can go for his CDL permit so he can apply for a lineman job that he has been trying to for awhile. They make you jump through all sorts of hoops just to apply. If he gets it he will be making crazy money so hopefully more vacations will be possible. and I will be able to quit my job! It will be so nice to not have to worry about money at all. And hopefully I wont be worrying about him too much. The job he wants has the highest fatality percentage of any job, even more than police or fire dept. :/ so that part won't be so nice. But I am good with money so hopefully I can save a bunch and he won't have to do it too long.