first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[gina236]

Awe that's such a cute story. Sounds like you really found the one!

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I am just waiting now for him to ask THE question

 

[gina236]

I'm sure that will be coming soon doesn't seem like he plans on going anywhere.

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I think he is waiting for the right moment.

 

[gina236]

Once you are living together that moment will be easier to make lol. How exciting!!

 

[Velathria]

I think so too

I can't wait and it be awesome if by then we'd be expecting. I can't wait for that moment when it's a when I can run out of the bathroom waving the stick around xD

Have you guys got any names picked out already?

 

[gina236]

Oh ya, I'm a planner so I've had my girls name picked out since I was 12. Boys name we just recently picked.
Emma Lynn for a girl.
Wyatt either James or Joseph for a boy.
James is my DH middle name and Joseph is his dads. We haven't decided which one we are going with. Lynn is my mom's middle name so we wanted to do Joseph after his dad but I think James sounds better.

Have you thought about it at all?

 

[Velathria]

Well we have actually almost for sure decided Charlotte for a girl I like the ring of it. At first I was against it but it actually grew on me and now I love it. And for boys it's hard... we can't decide .. he likes Benjamin and I like Liam but he said he doesn't like Liam because he bullied by someone with that name so that makes sense xD.. we actually have a huge list of boy names... girl definitely Charlotte

 

[Velathria]

I love Emma lynn and wyatt sounds amazing... especially with Joseph.

 

[gina236]

Why is it always boys names are so hard?! Lol I hate how popular Emma has become but I have wanted to name my girl that forever. When I used to play pretend with my friends in elementary school I used to pretend my name was emma. It's always been my plan to name my daughter that. Then in the last few years it had to blow up in popularity. -_-

My coworker just named her daughter charlotte. She calls her Charlie for short. That's such a cute name. Definitely understandable why your boyfriend would be against liam as a name. Sucks when people ruin cute names like that lol.

 

[Velathria]

I know right... oh well... back when I was pregnant with my son the girls names were hard.. I couldn't for the life of me think of any... and I had a bunch of boys names... and then low and behold I had a boy... so maybe this is a sign saying that the next baby will be a girl

 

[FertileFlower]

Magicalmom thank you!! I hope you get your BFP now as well!!

gina236, I was thinking of you and wondering how it was going. I do indeed think I ovulated today. The positive test is supposed to tell you that you ovulate in 12-48 hrs. I have had major signs that it actually happened this early. I've felt super elated and positive and me and DH have been bd'ing like bunnies! Then today I crashed and felt depressed, weepy, irritated and just out of sorts since I woke up this morning. It was such extreme contrast from how great I've felt the last couple of days so I knew it had to be hormonal. Sure enough, found some interesting readings about post ovulation depression and also heightened anxiety etc during ovulation. So all signs says I ovulated this early. I will list them if it will benefit anyone. I myself found so much valuable information on these boards. I had a feeling I would O early because it's been earlier and my period a bit shorter for a few months now. Going steadily from 30,29,28,25 and I O'd CD 11 last month I'm pretty sure, so this is it!

Sorry for writing a novel. Much baby dust to you, cycle sister!!

I missed everyone on here! Just had to take a break from obsessing about babies for a little bit. Well, temper it at least.

 

[FertileFlower]

Also, hello mininun1!! Thank you for the welcome back! Hope your appointment went well!!

Hello, Velathria and baby dust to you!!

 

[gina236]

FertileFlower! That definitely does sound hormonal. I was O'ing earlier and earlier too until taking last month off. I went right back to my 28 day cycle. So weird. Trying to stay positive but not stress this month. Didn't spot at all today so I can finally start BDing I've warned dh that we are bd'ing like bunnies this month. He is sooo upset haha. FX you caught that egg!!

 

[mininun1]

Velathria what a cute story about meeting your boyfriend! I'm sure he will pop the question soon.

Gina, don't freeze during your camping trip...40 degrees is sooo cold lol. I get cold very easily though. I'm looking forward to relaxing this weekend and hopefully feeling a little less nauseous. I've been having a hard time eating much at all, especially meat. My husband has been going out and getting me salads from Olive Garden for dinner lol. I'm hoping the food aversion doesn't last too long.

How is everyone else doing?

 

[gina236]

I know I am not looking forward to 40 degree nights. I am always cold as it is. But my dh said he would talk to his dad about borrowing a portable heater. So hopefully we can stay warm. An d after the TM they give away free beer so that will help us warm up

I hope the nausea goes away soon for you. I know that will be an issue for me too because I get nausea pretty often, and I have a fear of throwing up so I just continue to be nauseous lol. But at least salads are healthy. Lol.

 

[Velathria]

Awww fertileflower I hope you caught the egg this time sending you lots of baby dust.
Mini thank you. I was extremely lucky with my boyfriend.

Hope you have fun Gina maybe you and your hubby can do something to keep warm that will benefit your body temp and your ttc good luck..


Hope we have bfp's this month ladies

 

[Velathria]

Oh man I am at work and actually started in a good mood but then a coworker came up to me and she is pregnant now in her 5th month and telling me about what it's like and I am happy for her and everything but I just can't help to be jealous. Why did she get pregnant? It was accident with her and we all try so hard and dont get anything... now I'm all down and sad.... I hope atleast one of us finally gets a next month. I got my fingers crossed for everyone.

 

[FertileFlower]

Hello ladies!

I feel miserable. I've been crying for two days straight except last night when I had a terrible headache. Every little thing was upsetting. I don't usually get this emotional or blue.

I've been using the Advanced Clear Blue test and it showed the first solid face which means I'm at peak fertility on the 23rd after two days with blinking high fertility faces. I also checked the dye on the strips although it says not to do so. They look like regular opk's though and they match with the strip only being as dark as the control line on the 22nd also. EVERYTHING says I just ovulated. It's super early, but all cm is dried up also. But I smell very sweet, dh noticed it too.
I really hope this is it. We have bd'd 6 days in a row, twice on the top fertile days.
We are bd'd out, DH can't even ejaculate anymore and I'm sore and cranky.

gina236, have a wonderful trip! I missed how long you wrote you will be gone for?

mininun1, I hope your nausea goes away and that you will have a relaxing and good weekend!

Velathria, I know exactly how that feels. My friends are having babies so easily, and so many people who doesn't care or appreciate it gets pregnant despite terrible habits and mindset. It doesn't seem to make sense. From any perspective that is logical. I hope we will all get BFP's soon this year!!

 

[gina236]

I'm sorry you guys are having bad days. I hope they get better! I hope you can enjoy your weekends. The jeep is all packed up! I just crossed into new Hampshire. Hour from where we are headed in Maine. I probably won't be on at all tomorrow. We come back sometime sunday!