first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[Velathria]

Alright I will test tomorrow morning. is it normal that your basal temperature is higher when you have your AF? Cause I checked mine for the last few days and they have always been around 99.2 or 99.3

 

[gina236]

I'm not sure. I do not temp. That's an added stress that I don't want haha.

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I didn't do it at first too but the opk just didnt work for me. It told me last month that apparently I had an ovulation for like 7 days in a row...

 

[gina236]

That's weird. I don't even use opks. I just watch my body for signs. I have a very regular cycle so it's been pretty easy for me to pinpoint ovulation. But this month I am trying to not pay attention at all. Just bd all month and hope for the best. Whenever I would know I was about to O I would get really stressed and then DH would get stressed and not be able to finish which would stress us both out lol. So this month is just all all the time

 

[Velathria]

Yeah since I got my iud taken out .. my period has been weird. Yeah I can notice usually that I am ovulating but this time I had no signs... or atleast I didn't notice.. I don't know it's so weird. Still gonna take that test tomorrow morning and hope for the best
Hope the non stress works out for you

 

[gina236]

FX for your test in the morning!!

 

[Velathria]

Thank you but not trying to get my hopes up.

 

[Velathria]

I'll let you all know by tomorrow morning probably earlier for you cause I am in germany xD

 

[mininun1]

Good luck on your test, Velathria

I hope everyone is doing well! I'm just waiting patiently for my first appointment, keeping very busy with work as always. I bet you are so ready for your event this weekend, Gina!

 

[Velathria]

Thanks for the good luck... but I tested in the morning and it's a even though I thought so I am still really disappointed. .. oh well on to the next cycle then. My AF is already over today really weird..how are you all doing? I'm not having such a good day now..

 

[gina236]

Sorry it was a bfn. At least you know now though..

AFM I am super sore today. Went on a 12 mile run last night with my DH and I am definitely feeling it today. Keep thinking how the hell am I gonna do that again Saturday with obstacles involved haha. Hopefully I make it to the end. Most women don't so I just want to be one of the few that do! Today is my last day of work for the week so tomorrow I'll be going to yoga and relaxing before making the 5 hour drive up to the campsite. Camping with 40 degree nights is not going to be fun. Haha.

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I expected as much though... lol I can't even run that far so cudos to you xD I bet you'll make it oh I love camping.
Hope you have fun oh yoga is really nice. Actually might give it a go... maybe it will help with relaxation a bit for the baby trying

 

[gina236]

I loveee yoga. But I haven't been to a class in probably a year. I get really bad anxiety so if I don't have someone to go with me I can't do it. My best friend was going with me for awhile but he moved to Texas so that's out now lol. But I convinced my hubby we have to go because we really need a day of stretching. He's not too thrilled about it but oh well haha.

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I am kinda shy too so its hard for me to join classes alone... I always feel weird. .. hahah I bet he isn't but it's sweet that he is still coming

 

[gina236]

He has done yoga at home with me but it's not "manly" so he doesn't like to go to classes. Lol but he is great and will do anything I ask him to. Might take a little persuading but he always gives in

 

[Velathria]

Hahahaha yeah mine too. he won't like some things but at the end he does it cause he will do anything for me but it's the other way around too. I would anything for him. I am moving to another country for hI'm xD maybe he will come do yoga with me

 

[gina236]

We are the same way. It's give and take. I feel that is how a relationship should be. Though I don't know if I could ever move to another country for my dh. That is crazy haha. Though if he lived in another country I probably would.

 

[Velathria]

Hahaha believe me when he'd be gone then you'd go. Yeah I think a relationship is supposed to be like that.I used to have the worst guys that would just end up using me and that's not right. Finally got lucky with my man

 

[gina236]

How did you two meet being in separate countries? I can't even imagine the travel costs you guys spend seeing each other! I've done long distance but only a few states away, never that far. My DH and I have been together since I was 18. I've had a thing for him since I was 14. Thankfully he grew up alot over the years. When we met he was quite the womanizer. Now he is the perfect husband. It's amazing when you finally find a good guy after being with jerks.

 

[Velathria]

This is gonna sound weird and funny but we met in an online game xD
And then we actually just met up with a nother friend on vacation together... we had been talking overy skype for a while and then it just clicked right then and there... and I kinda just knew in that one week that he was special and different ... might sound cheesy but it's true.. I told him things I had never told anyone... and he loves how weird and different I am.
And then from then on we have been meeting up every month.. yeah the costs had been crazy which is why I said that I'm moving In. He had been talking about it for a while but I just kept thinking and wondering if I could do it and well I realized I didn't want to live without him. So here I am and we had a pregnancy scare in June and when it was negative, he told me that he was actually really looking forward to it and that he'd love to have a baby with me and then we decide we want to actually try. we have the money and everything and I'm moving in and I've been wanting another child so we agreed. And here I am