first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[magicalmom2be]

I said I would wait, but who am I kidding? 11 dpo BFN...

You two have fun DTD! Sending loads of baby dust your way, so the swimmers will catch those eggs!!!

 

[gina236]

It could still be too early. Especially with that dip on 9dpo. It takes a few days after implantation to get a bfp. I am still holding out hope. I know seeing bfn is terrible but I have my FX for you!

 

[Velathria]

Awww magicalmom I know that feeling but like gina said it can sometimes take up to a week till it show up on a test. Your af is supposed to show on monday right? Well just wait and see... I know its hard but you'll definitely know to test again then or not. I still have hope got my FX for you too

Baby dust back at ya

 

[gina236]

Pretty sure I O'd today! And we dtd last night. I am feeling really good about this cycle

 

[magicalmom2be]

Yay Gina!!!! This is your month love!!!!

Baby dust, love!!!

 

[Velathria]

Yay!!! That's good news now it has to happen. I feel like this is your month

Me and bf have covered all the days I think. Don't know if I'm still ovulating today... we are gonna dtd tonight again and then I need a break xD I am super sore down there xD

 

[gina236]

Oh man I bet! After just 2 days I need a break! Lol. So happy to be in the TWW. Really hoping this one sticks!

 

[Velathria]

Me too gina!!! I gave my bf the job to not let me test early. Even when I beg. I don't want that disappointment. I will wait and see if my AF comes or not. I definitely O'd right on schedule which means my AF should also come right on schedule and if it doesn't then I'm testing... I really don't know how I feel about this month. I want to have lots of hope and be super convinced this is the month but I don't want to put myself out there for extreme disappointment. So I'm waiting it out. I do pray that we all are lucky this month

Btw im also testing on the 14th xD

 

[gina236]

Yay testing buddies!! My af isn't due until the 16th but I know I won't be able to wait that long. I already want to test I just want to see that bfp sooo bad! So the 14th is 12dpo so hoping something will show by then.

 

[Velathria]

My AF is due on the 14th. I wish I could know right now too. Should be like in Sims xD they know the day after the dtd xD it's gonna be hard not to symptom spot the next two weeks need to hurry

 

[gina236]

Not symptom spotting is so hard! On the one hand I hate doing it but on the other hand I like to have a record for if I do get a bfp so I know what I was feeling for the future. I so wish it was like on the Sims! the TWW is torture. Usually I'm okay until about 10 dpo but I feel like I know already and just want that proof. We have thanksgiving the Thursday after I will test so if it is a bfp it is going to be soooo hard to keep my mouth shut around all my family and my DHs family lol. We want to tell family for christmas when I'm 9 weeks so I need to keep quiet lol.

 

[Velathria]

I know what you mean lol if I do get the bfp it'll be hard not to tell the whole world... I'll be so excited.

I know what you mean... for some reason I can't for the life of me remember how I felt with my first pregnancy...
So this is almost like it's all new.. of course back then it wasn't planned so I didn't focus on how I felt... i.probably totally missed them all... I think this time I'm going to write it down so I can read it for next time.lol

We can do this.. only 14 days. *repeats to self*

 

[gina236]

14 days, 14 days. Haha. We will need to keep each other strong! Lol

 

[magicalmom2be]

So happy for you ladies!!! Don't let the 2WW stress you out! Can't wait for test time because we need some BFPs!!!

Baby dust to both of you loves!!! I would love for us all to be bump buddies!!!

 

[gina236]

Thank you! Can't wait for you to test again!

 

[Velathria]

Aww thx magicalmom I can't wait either. .. wouldn't it be amazing for all of us... I'd be so excited. Hahaha...
When do you get to test again?

Gina- we definitely need to do that.... I just hope this month is it.

Lots and lots of baby dust to us all

 

[gina236]

I really hope it is for all of us!!

I am STILL having O pains. They are so bad this month. Like i want to go soak in the tub but im afraid to hurt DH sperm just in case they havent actually gotten through the egg yet. Usually it's not like this. Wondering if it has to do with the maca root I was adding into my smoothies. I know it's good for fertility but don't really know why. Maybe it helps the egg mature? Magicalmom I know you said you use it, do you know what it actually does?

 

[Velathria]

Maybe it helps with ovulation.. so the egg is a more healthier one and the envoirment is good for the sperm. That be my thought.

Me and bf didn't dtd last night... I passed out... was so tired... hopefully it still worked out.

 

[gina236]

I am sure you are fine! If AF is due the 14th you have probably already O'd and can take a break.

I read online that maca root used for rats caused bigger litters. Ahh. Idk if I'd be ready for that lol. But most success stories just say that they got pregnant the first or second month adding maca into things so hoping it's just a really healthy egg! we didn't dtd either last night. DH told me while we were showering that he knows I said I wanted to but he was exhausted and didn't think he could. Which is fine. My opks are back to negative and I definitely feel I already O'd so wasn't a big deal. In a pretty great mood today. Wishing I wasn't spending it at work though lol. 13 more day! Haha.

 

[FertileFlower]

magicalmom2be I can totally relate. On 11dpo and just tested negative on a ic.
It's so discouraging, if I do this again next month I will not test until period is due.
Any news? Your period is due today, yes? Hopefully it is not due anymore though, but a bub!

Gina that sounds great! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!! So happy you got it worked out! I do take maca supplements, they are totally safe and are supposed to boost fertility. Where can I find the study you read? Maca can also help regulate your hormones and strengthen the reproductive system is my understanding.

Velathria, baby dust to you also! So glad you too caught the window!

AFM, I've been fairly patient. Still 2(-3) days before period is due if I have calculated my lutheal phase correctly. I still have cramps on and off. Been thinking for sure that my period was going to start within minutes, only to not have it do so.
The night of 9dpo I had terrible a/f like cramps. I hope that was implantation.
Which would make today the earliest to get a positive.

Haven't had sex with DH since day after ovulation. Just in case. Starting to climb the walls. Want sex and wine! lol! ^sigh^^cry^^Hope^Pray^

I still feel positive, but now I also feel that a/f might start. I go from hopeful and positive to feeling despair. On an emotional hormonal roller coaster. Hoping it's the baby one!!