first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[gina236]

Sophie according to what you have said you are around 7-9 dpo. The earliest I have seen a true bfp is 10 dpo. But most get it around 12-14. If you test on the 14th with us you will be 15-17 dpo which unless you have really long LP that would make you "late". But testing late i feel is always better than testing early. Earliest I would test is the 11th. That would put you at least 12 dpo if you O'd on the 30th. As for the spotting that could definitely be IB. Generally women implant at 7-12 dpo so if you O'd on the 28th you would have been around 7 dpo when you had the spotting so it definitely could be that! FX for you!!

 

[Velathria]

So cool another one that is part of our cycle

 

[gina236]

We will have one big testing party! Haha

 

[Velathria]

Yeah hahha with hopefully a round of bfps for all of us xD

 

[gina236]

Of course! My FRERs that SHOULD be the old style already shipped! Yay!! I was hoping the 16th -23rd delivery was going to be wrong. Of course they didn't enter any tracking info so I can't track it but I think they will definitely be here by the 14th

 

[Velathria]

That's great news. Means we can test together again on the 14th I have one frer for the 14th and some cheap ones for before

 

[gina236]

I still have a bunch of cheapies too. If they didn't come in in time I was planning to buy the test and confirm pack at the store that has a fr gold and an old style FRER. That's the only old style ones I can find in the store. I still have I think 3 or 4 cb digi so I really didn't want the fr gold but I need one of those FRER for the 14th

 

[Velathria]

Ok that's good then. you are more then prepared xD

 

[Velathria]

So had any ideas about giving birth? C-section or natural birth?

 

[gina236]

Plan for natural. You can't get a C-section here unless there is a medical reason for it. But definitely plan on an epidural lol

 

[Velathria]

That's good.. I just know alot of friends that are Americans and they always got the planned c-sections. ... I am definitely doing natural again. It's the best feeling ever... when you get to finally hold them after such hard work. I cried and laughed and shook all over... xD

 

[gina236]

I hate pain so I am terrified of delivering but I know it will all be worth it. At this point I will just be happy to keep a pregnancy. I will talk to my doctor (when I find one) about delivery options. I wish the stork could just come bring me my baby

 

[Velathria]

I bet this one will finally stick. thinking names me feel like it will Def happen soon hopefully this month. How is your dh hip doing? Hope all is well at your house we are almost officially settled in

 

[gina236]

His hip has been pretty good lately. It's been rainy the past few days so it's bound to act up soon our house is still a disaster. Finally got all the wiring and wall repair done in the kitchen. Now onto the floors and then finally cabinets!! That's good your are almost settled. Does your son still love it?! how's the writing been going? I'm going to get my nails done tonight with my mom and little brothers girlfriend. I haven't had them done since my wedding a year and a half ago! Lol.

 

[Velathria]

Oh nice getting some pampering done. Good for that egg to stick.

Oh he is still loving it here he started playschool and he only needed a day with me there to get used to it and now he likes it
Haven't gotten to writing yet too much other stuff to he done lol but I should have time for it now.
Redoing the house right now?

 

[gina236]

Ya we need to sell the house in the spring so we can take the profit and buy a house outright so we have no mortgage. That's the only way we can afford for me not to work at all when we have a baby. Going to be a stressful time for sure. Awe that's good your son is adjusting well. That's always tricky when moving. It's good he likes it

 

[sophiedaphne]

Sophie according to what you have said you are around 7-9 dpo. The earliest I have seen a true bfp is 10 dpo. But most get it around 12-14. If you test on the 14th with us you will be 15-17 dpo which unless you have really long LP that would make you "late". But testing late i feel is always better than testing early. Earliest I would test is the 11th. That would put you at least 12 dpo if you O'd on the 30th. As for the spotting that could definitely be IB. Generally women implant at 7-12 dpo so if you O'd on the 28th you would have been around 7 dpo when you had the spotting so it definitely could be that! FX for you!!

Hey, thank you so much!
Sorry I disappeared for awhile... I babysit on my days off from 'regular' work, so I get to hang with my baby friends. I'm literally around babies ALL THE TIME (I'm a NICU RN) and the baby fever is strong. Haha. For DH, too. You'd think I'd know more about this kind of stuff, but we get the babies after all of the pregnancy stuff, and I know a lot less than I guess I thought I did!

I'm super excited, and really like that I can talk to you guys on here about this, if that's ok with you, of course Gosh, I can't imagine how difficult this waiting game is going to be every month. But, I really appreciate all of the information so far.

 

[Velathria]

Gina- that sounds like a good plan and stressful I bet but worth it in the end yeah I'm glad my little one is adjusting well... I was worried about that too at first but he is being a champ about all this.

Sophiedaphne- ofcourse you can talk to us that's what we are here for. We can understand you the best probably
And we are here in every situation.


I hope fertileflower is doing well. She hasn't come back... I really wanna know if she got her bfp

Backpain was gone for a bit and now it's back in fill throttle.... my son kicked me, on accident, in my abdomen before and the only thought I had was "omg the egg!!" I hope that didn't ruin my chance

 

[gina236]

Sophie we are always here!

Velathria that won't hurt anything don't worry. The egg is so small and has so much cushion that it will be absolutely fine!

 

[sophiedaphne]

Thank you guys so much we actually bought cheapy tests today and tested just for fun. I swear I saw a little bit of blue but I think it's just the dye running.