first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[Velathria]

Hahaha cool. I'll try that. And yeah I read a few different reports and statistics about it and on a few forums I've seen it too. But he laughed when I told him to take them. He thinks it's only a women's thing.

 

[gina236]

Rip the label off and say it's just a multivitamin hahaha

 

[Velathria]

That's what I was thinking too xD be awesome. Lol

I still have that damiana pills so I'm gonna start taking them and the maca root until ovulation and then after I will eat the pineapple again... and see what all that does apparently the damiana leaves are also good for the quality of the egg so I'm gonna try that.

 

[gina236]

FX it all works! I wish it was as easy as it was in high school. Have sex, bam! Pregnant! Ugh.

 

[Velathria]

Hahaha me too xD

Thing is my family usually has really high fertility. My mom had 4 girls... my aunt had 7 children and my other aunt had 3... and my aunt had it even though she got her tubes tied... and I got pregnant with my son with BC so I am just surprised it's taking longer this time.

 

[gina236]

That's how I feel too. My mom is always saying how fertile our family is. She got pregnant with my older brother on purpose, then with me she found out on his first birthday that she was pregnant again. My little brother she was on birth control and still got pregnant. Then she had her tunes tied lol. I got pregnant at 19 after 1 night on CD 14 when I knew we shouldn't do it. Woke up the next morning and looked at the calendar and was like "shit" lol. It's been 7 months now. I'm ready to be a mom.

 

[Velathria]

Well then it has to be the men lol... let's blame them xD just kidding. It is pretty rough though when you hear all that and then think... why is it not working then...I hope though this time is it for you and it sticks well

 

[gina236]

Thanks me too! At this point I'm sure there is something there. Just terrified it won't stay. I made it to 4+5 last time. I'm only at 3+3 today so still have awhile until I'm in the clear from last time. We are planning to tell family at christmas. My DHs grandma lives in Florida and we were trying to get her up to CT for the holiday like last year so we can tell her but she said she has too much going on down there I just don't feel like a phone call is sufficient to tell someone that helped raise my DH. (His mom was 18 and single when she had him). Trying to figure out a way to make it special from so far away.

 

[Velathria]

Awww I really really hope it sticks and you havea healthy 9 months and a little healthy baby wwwaaah so exciting

 

[gina236]

Thank you check out this part of this site. I am going to use this every time I want to test!

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/brands.php

 

[Velathria]

Yeah I am on that page but that's cool for stats on the tests.

 

[gina236]

I showed DH the picture of the tests from this morning and he was able to point out the line to me! so he can officially see it

 

[Velathria]

There you go. that's great. That means you aren't imaging it because the men are the worst about this.

I am a bit annoyed right now with my bf... I guess it's a bit hard for him because he hasn't had a child but he has been pretty rough on my son and it's my son's bday and I was trying to get him everything he wanted with his fav dinner and all and well my bf is actually sitting in the room all cranky because I didn't agree with the way he acted and it seems like he keeps getting jealous of my son... I hope he isn't like that with the baby we have.. maybe it's a good thing I might not be pregnant.. might be not ready yet... we did talk about all this but he is acting ridiculous and if he can't handle that then he better fix it.

 

[gina236]

Such a roller coaster today. So upset now. My dh friends just announced they are pregnant. They were the ONLY ones we wanted to beat. They just got married in July. We kept saying we need to have a baby before them. I should be happy for them but it's just so unfair. If she is 12 weeks that puts her conceiving 1 month after they got married. Ugh.

 

[gina236]

That does sound like he's being jealous. It might just have to do with moving in together or something though. It is a big adjustment that can take awhile to get right. Living with someone is never easy.

 

[Velathria]

That is pretty annoying... don't you hate when that happens. Why does it work out with them... but don't worry you might be busy with your own pregnancy soon so you won't have to worry about them

 

[Velathria]

That's true... well I am gonna give him time to realize this himself and if he doesn't then I guess I will have to say something... but I guess it be like being alone together the whole time and then suddenly a baby coming along. Alot of guys react like that when they have children... they get jealous because you show more affection to the baby then him...

 

[gina236]

Ibknow. It's just so annoying. My dh friend has wanted a baby for awhile but his wife wouldn't have one until they were married. That's the only reason he proposed. She gave him an ultimatum that he either propose or she was leaving. Just so unfair that they are already announcing it. I hate feeling so much jealously but they were the one couple we wanted to beat to having a baby.

 

[Velathria]

Life is so unfair... i always feel like nothing goes the way I want it and people seem to be getting everything handed to them. I get how you feel. And I understand how you are angry that they are. It's normal.

 

[Velathria]

A friend of my bf has one son but he loves children and wants more but his wife is a carrier woman and she refuses to get any more.. she even went and got her tubes tied without him knowing.. how screwed up is that? It's so rare finding men that actually really want children and then they end up with women like that.