first cycle actively trying (June 2015)

[gina236]

That's my thought process too. That's why I'm kinda afraid to take one. Haha. I don't want it to be negative. I'm still hoping to wait until Saturday just to make sure if I'm going to get a line that I will have one by then. Until then I have 12 more Wondfos that I will be hopefully seeing some progression on

 

[Velathria]

Haha you just keep peeing on more and more xD and hopefully you will get clear lines soon got my fingers crossed for you

 

[gina236]

Thank you! Hoping the stays away for you!

 

[Lawes1987]

Sorry about being MIA, I was pretty emotional after getting 2 positive tests on consecutive days and then starting to bleed a day before AF was due. I had one light day, one heavy day and today is a light day again. And a negative test tonight. I spoke to a nurse on 111 (UK less urgent then 999) and she said it sounded like an early miscarriage and to take it easy. I'm pretty gutted because my husband would have loved a July baby and this is miscarriage number 4. Onwards and upwards I guess.

 

[gina236]

I know how hard that is lawes. Take some time to grieve. We are all here for you

 

[Velathria]

Oh no... Lawes that's horrible. I'm so sorry. But they say after a Mc your body is supposed to be more fertile so maybe the next month will be it. Or if you need time and need someone to talk. Like gina said we are here for you I hope you feel better soon.

 

[Velathria]

Gina anything new this morning with your tests?

 

[gina236]

This mornings tests on the bottom. I can still barely see it in person but I feel like it shows up better on pics now. I have my fingers crossed soooo hard! And I told dh. Even though I wasn't going to until it was visable and a true bfp. But I couldn't help it. He asked to see the tests and could actually see a line!! If DH can see it it must be true right?!

 

[Velathria]

Omg I see it !! I saw it its definitely there

Now three people have seen it it has to be a bfp

Can't wait till you take that FRER!! I'll be so happy for you

I got my fingers crossed that this one sticks guess I'm gonna go get myself some maca root for the next month

 

[gina236]

Yay yay yay seriously get some maca root! Lol. I only took about a teaspoon or less of the powder a day. It comes in capsules too. Really hoping this is it! I hate getting such light tests but it does look like they are getting darker. DH has work tonight. Idk how I am going to not break into those new style FRERS

 

[Velathria]

Hahahaha I bet it's super hard. So is he bringing a test with him tonight then? Oooh exciting I wish I would get a positive but I bet if I didn't even get a faint one yesterday I don't think I am.

I am further along then you... disappointed but at the same time super excited for you xD

 

[gina236]

You never know. Everyones hcg doubles at a different rate. Maybe mine doubled a little quicker than yours and that's why it's showing up already. Have you started spotting at all yet? Hold onto some hope! Not sure if I will have DH pick up tests tonight or not. I would hate to spend the money if my order comes in tomorrow lol.

 

[Velathria]

That's true... so difficult deciding that...

Well I haven't started spotting but maybe I will tomorrow. Who knows my body could be deciding not to spot this time around xD and if I am not pregnant Def getting maca root.

 

[gina236]

Hoping your not spotting because your pregnant! if you do take the maca root make sure you only take it up until ovulation. It hasn't been tested enough so they don't know if it is safe during pregnancy. And I had my dh taking it too so give some to your bf

 

[Velathria]

I'll just sneak it into his drink hahahha... he hates taking any vitamins... it's like they have to admit something might be wrong with them and not us. XD

Ok up to ovulation it is. I tried the pineapples this month too after ovulation.

I really hope I'm not spotting cause I am pregnant... I am trying to record more of my cycles now so I can see what's different.

 

[gina236]

I used to think my body worked like a clock until I started recording everything and seeing how different every month really is lol. Thankfully my dh has no problem taking whatever I tell him to. I would make him a smoothie every morning and give him his daily vitamins. He doesn't really have a choice. I just put them in his hand

 

[Velathria]

I wish... guess that will hopefully happen when he realizes that it's still not working although I am taking all kinds of stuff

 

[gina236]

I just tell him it's good for his health either way. And I make sure to tell him I don't think anything is wrong with his swimmers but it won't hurt to give them a little boost. Might make super sperm

 

[Velathria]

I will try that then xD hopefully it will work. I read the other day that men can take prenatal vits too and that they make the sperm quality better. Didn't even know that lol

 

[gina236]

I didn't know that either. Interesting. Oh and if that doesn't work watch the great sperm race on youtube together. It's 5 or 6, 10 min long videos that show what sperm have to go through to get to the egg. That might make him want to do everything possible to help