It's so nice that your banker and your manager are rooting for you and on your side! That's awesome. I too believe that by the FALL of this year you'll be reflecting on the year and how far you have come. By New Year's you'll be showing!
I haven't told my boss about anything. He doesn't get to work until at least 11:30 on most days, and my appointments have been at 7a or 7:30a, so by the time I get to work, he is still snoozing. hee hee. I may consider telling him when it gets time for ER and/or ET, but I will probably just call out sick a few days, or hope that my transfer is on a Friday, so I can chill out over the weekend, and get back to work on Monday or call in sick on Monday. I'm just going to play it by ear for now and see what happens.
Alrighty, we're off to go to a class/seminar on IVF. It's a one on one kind of thing, and I doubt the lady will be telling me anything new, but it'll be new for my husband. He'll probably curl into the fetal position and just stare awkwardly at the lady giving the presentation. HA!!HA!! I make him sound like such a wimp, but really, he just doesn't talk to people easily.
Oh ERose....I'm so sorry you had negative blood tests. I know those cartoon hugs suck, but you know if you were my next door neighbor, I'd be over there consoling you with chick flicks, wine and Ben & Jerry's. Now I guess I'm glad you tested at home, but it still doesn't make it any easier. Especially since you've been the guinea pig of the group. Hopefully the FET will be easier AND you will get your BFP. Biology is just so, SO crazy.
Talk to you when I get back next week ok. Take it easy, love.
Erin - sorry about the negative. I totally forgot to test today, but I have pretty much given up. I wish you didn't have to wait another cycle, but you could get lucky on your own I am sure you will have a success story next time
So sorry Erin - that's really rough. At least you have a good amount of frozen embries! I gotta run, I just came on to check on you!
Oh...totally forgot...you have this cycle "off" kind of. So you can relax a whole lot more & not worry about meds & timing & drs. Of course I am sure you will still put in an effort. But that month I had off was SO NICE. I would have been happier to get pregnant...but no dr visits & only femara was great. I hope you guys take this cycle to have some fun & really relax. I think it will put you in a great state of mind for your FET. I think it is so cool to think even if we are on different protocols right now, we will VERY likely be bump buddies...the 4 of us...even if our due dates are a little off.
Oh another great thing about next cycle...my baby would be due the end of April...my birthday. So I told my husband since he took 18 months to get back on board with TTC, this will be his payback...we will get pregnant with a girl, born under my sign...so basically a mini me! I can be a little hormonal & hot headed. If we are lucky, she will also have red hair. I love thinking about those things.
Hi ladies just checking in. I haven't been on line much lately. Erin sorry about your beta, but your positive attitude is just lovely...good for you hun! You will get it next time around! Beagle, I totally agree about enjoying the month off from the craziness of assisted reproduction...Nothing to report with me, just in a 2ww of a natural cycle. It's been nice not doing injections and getting poked and prodded every other day and just BDing on our own.
Oh Beaglemom-a mini you sounds great. I would love if she was born in April as well. If this cycle works I think our baby will be born in May. Hubs and I are both May babies, so I'm hoping for end of April. That would be perfect. Well, anytime would be perfect. Hee hee. Who am I kidding?
ERose-we are headed all the way to the west of TN. Not quite Memphis, but pretty close. North of Memphis in the fields. Enjoy your break. I'm going to start temping when I get home. It has been nice not temping.
I forgot that yesterday the assistant said that egg retrieval counts as the day of conception so I am to take a blood test 18 days later. That seems so far away, but I guess if transfer is 5 days later, it's only a TWW.
Kelly-good seeing you. Hope your natural cycle works out for you!
That would be really fun if we were all bump buddies. Beaglemom-you have to go first. I don't want to be the guinea pig. I like to know what's going to happen before it does.