for our rainbow groups catch up Xx

[xoxo4angel]

Glad you are better today Laura Oh and Pierce reaches down during diaper changes too...it's become a battle to change dirty diapers!!

Amy ~ I hope the mush brain keeps going right through to your BFP! Germ-a-phobia continued for me during Pierce's infancy, but I lightened up a couple months ago. It's a never ending battle, one I just can't win And I saw that about the flight crashing into the French Alps, so tragic!! I didn't see the Craig's List horror story---holy crap, I hope that woman pays dearly for what she did to that poor Mom! Craig's List can be great and scary. I sold my baby stuff on there, but met the buyers at public parking lots! (I would even text my DH letting him know where & when).

Bethany ~ Moving can be painstakingly slow...hope it wraps up quickly. Say, I wonder if people from arid climates feel the opposite when they move to more tropical places? You know like, "I can't believe I'm leaving a maintenance free yard for weeds and humidity?" Ha! I'm sure you'll love it! Bright side, if you have allergies, they'll be gone---unless you're allergic to cactus?

:wave: Jess & Leslie & 1983

 

[Storked]

Laura, miscarriages definitely suck

Amy, we will drive through tonight! I did hear about the baby. It died didn't it? My husband told me about it. I didn't know about the plane crash though

 

[aaronswoman79]

Bethany, good luck with the move! Here's to new beginnings and I am sure you will like New Mexico. As long as you and your family are happy, you will be happy anywhere. I wonder, is the weather a lot different in New Mexico? I seriously don't know anything about the state, other than cactus and desert lol. Hope Lorelei is doing great! With all of the hair she has (which is beautiful btw), does she still allow you to put hair clips or ponytails? Sophie hates anything pulling on her hair, hair clips, hats, etc.

Amy, so excited about how close you are getting to your rainbow. I hope and pray that you get your little miracle/s with this IVF cycle. Oh, and I am still a germaphobe. lol. I am scared to shake people's hands, especially men. lol. I feel that many are not as clean as us ladies and the first thing that pops into my mind when I have to shake a mans hand is, I wonder where that hand has been. lol. And I am totally scared when Sophia plays at the park around other children because of all the viruses they have and I don't want her to get sick.

Laura, so sorry about what you are going through. I know it stings when those days come up, like the day you were suppose to have your scan. Its all so painful and its not fair that women have to go through this. I just don't get it. Being on bnb has totally woken me up to the world of mc, infertility, premature birth and just how many women go through so much. Do they have any idea what happened with this mc? So the docs can take preventive measures in the future? So sorry for all of your heartache hon.

Angel, lol at Pierce reaching down his diaper. I am sure the second you see him pooping you are just waiting to grab him and change him quickly so he doesn't reach down there and find a surprise. hehe. Toddlers can be so cute and mischievous. hehe. Like when he was silently rolling that toilet paper across the class. isn't it funny how when they do something they aren't suppose to, they get very quiet all of the sudden. That is how i know when Sophia is doing something she shouldn't. She is usually in some corner hiding and is very quiet. haha.

 

[lilesMom]

God Amy I heard about the plane but not the woman and baby
That's just pure evil!!!
Crazy people in this world, scary

Neatness and cleanliness don't exist with munchkins
But it's a small price u will be paying soon xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Bethany hope NEW Mexico is great
And he settle infast xxx

Jess no testing.
I asked in hosp and my own Doc
They won't test in Ireland unless u hve 3
I'm very very far from even thinking of ttc
I'm goin on the pill after this af
I'm not sure I'll ever go again.
But won't say never just in case
Hope all's well x

Love to all x

 

[aaronswoman79]

Btw, I heard about all of those news stories. That co-pilot. What a coward, words can't describe this guy. In the news stories, they show his picture and he is sitting near the Golden Gate Bridge. He should have just jumped off the bridge instead of taking so many innocent lives on that plane that day. I honestly don't care about how depressed he was, blah blah blah. He is a mass killer now. Unfortunately there will continue to be evil like this in the world. And the lady from Craigslist that met the poor pregnant woman and cut her baby out of her womb. They say she was faking a pregnancy and that she completely premeditated this evil act. They say they can't charge her with murder without evidence that the baby was alive after she cut the baby out? Are you effing kidding me? The husband of this murderer found the baby in the baby in the bathtub gasping for air as the poor little baby was dying. That should be enough proof that the baby was born alive and even if the baby wasn't born alive she is still responsible for taking this babies life. She is a murderer. That is one thing I really do hate about some of these liberal laws. As if a baby is not just as much of a human as everybody else. Just because the baby is in the mothers womb, babies are still human beings and deserve dignity like everybody else.

And about Craigslist. Remember I told you that my older dd's biological father is in jail 50 years to life for luring women through craigslist for raping and attempting to kill at least 3 women!! It was a huge deal here, they even amended new laws here in California because of his case. Thank God I never have to worry about my daughter or my family being harassed by this monster because he is locked up and can't hurt anybody else.

Oh, not sure if I told you ladies but this monsters has 2 other children (that I know of) who live right here in the same city that I do. So my older daughter has a 12 year old half-sister that looks A LOT like her (saw her pics from doing facebook research). They only met once when Aly was 3 and the girl was a newborn and I am actually scared to run into these people some day because the resemblance between my daughter and this other girl is uncanny. What is sad is soon after the monster was arrested, the little girls mother died prematurely (age 27 I believe, read it in the local obituary and couldn't believe it, so sad). So the girl became an orphan but her grandparents adopted her and are raising her as their own child. I have met the lady who died only once when Aly was about 3 years old (because I needed the monsters permission to take Aly out of the country). That is when we all noticed that the 2 girls resembled, but we never saw the women and the little girl again. Soon after, he left this woman for their daughters babysitter (classic story huh). And he then had a son with the babysitter, who also lives in the same city!! He is the exact age of Natalie! Soon after leaving the woman she ended up dying and he ended up in jail where he belongs. Maybe when Aly and the other girl are adults in the near future they might want to meet, who knows. What a soap opera, my life. lol.

 

[mommylov]

ok phew glad Im not the only with the majoy anti-germy issue! Im going to show my DH and say "SEE!"

Ya how terrible is that about that lady? I found out she has a go fund me account and donated to her. Poor thing moved out here and just started a job as a pottery class instructor. I'm sure her medical bills will be horrendous but even if they aren't... the emotional & physical pain she has to live with is unimaginable. I hope the money goes a long way for her whether its to pay for bills or a vacation!

 

[mommylov]

I totally agree Jess!!! And to not be able to charge her with murder?!?!?! She should be given the gas chamber!

 

[Storked]

Angel, wonderful perspective! I'd take those weeds any day but you are SO right about my allergies! And I will probably be less only. If anything I may need heavier moisturizer too...I love thick face cream. Feels wonderful!

Jessica, Lorelei doesn't hate me fixing her hair but she usually pulls out ponies. She actually likes to pull on her hair and eyelashes a lot. I'm worried that she may have that condition where people rip their hair out? Not sure what to do.
They told us that the weather in New Mexico is mild except for summer which is supposed to be hot but a dry heat. I can handle dry heat. Humidity is much harder!
Also, thank goodness your ex is in jail! My sister's ex is in jail for hurting her kids. It is terrible. The world is full of awful people.

Laura, they won't test until after 3? That is terrible

Amy, link to her gofundme? I'd like to contribute too.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Omg Bethany! Sophia is also a hair puller. And it really worries me because she is doing it more now. She tugs at her hair and twirls it when going to sleep, drinking her milk, when she wakes up in the middle of the night, she even does it with both hands while lying in bed. She doesn't quite pull it out because she grabs onto a lot at a times and twirls and tugs pretty hard, but I also worry. I know its a soothing mechanism. But none of my other girls did this. We try to stop her but she just keeps tugging and tugging and even in front of people when we go out. I wonder at one point do we seek treatment if she doesn't stop and continues to do it more. I'm going to ask her ped at her 2 year appointment. And how terrible about your sisters ex. Were the children his also? Good thing he is locked so he can't hurt anymore children. So much evil in this world!

Sophia still only has 8 teeth!! She has a molar that has been breaking through for the past 2 months it is just beginning to break through the gum. Poor things. My 2 other daughters had way more teeth than Sophia by 21 months. She is so tall now. Already past the 3 feet mark! And gaining super slowly now, she's 31 lbs. She still looks chunkier than a lot of kids her age though. But you can totally tell she is thinning down slowly. When people ask her age and I tell them their jaw usually drops, its a little uncomfortable because she babbles a lot and people usually think she is older(because of her size) and behind developmentally because she is not talking much. But I must say she has improved a lot and is just beginning to speak 2 word sentences, but still babbles a lot. So I am no longer worried because she has improved so much with her language!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Yikes Jess, I didn't realize your ex was a Craigslist offender! I recall an attorney being in trouble for similar reasons, that wasn't your ex was it? As for hair pulling, I'm sure it's just a phase! Glad Soph is doing well with her language skills!

Never fails, I get on here and Pierce wants me...I'll be back! Happy Saturday!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi Angel!! No that wasn't my pos ex. Lol at him being an attorney. No this guy amounted to nothing. I was in my relationship with him from age 18 to 20, he was the same age as me. So I see there are many sickos resorting to craigslist or other internet websites. Sick world we live in. I was watching a documentary on netflix about the sex industry and how these sick f**** lure young women into prostitution and sex slaves. Its so horrific. These pimps pose as boyfriends and then basically force these girls into prostitution. They target all kinds of girls from dysfunctional homes and women in college. I watched this before going to bed last night and it made me so mad and sick. I am so scared for my 3 girls with how bad things are getting out there. Especially since Aly snuck onto instagram.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hope all of u ladies have a great weekend!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jess ~ it's bound to be tough raising kids in such a tech savvy world!

Laura ~ How are you feeling? Meds fix you up yet? Hugs to that sweet boy! How's he doing in physio?

Bethany ~ I hope you are having (or have had) a safe trip! Cannot wait for updates

Amy ~ I'm sending prayers and well wishes for everything to go smoothly

Leslie ~ I bet you've been busy with the girls...I hope this finds you all doing well xoxo

Hi ladies! DH came home this weekend We are currently arguing about updating my car...he wants a Tahoe, but I want another X5. He says the Chevy has a 3rd row and more room, I say the BMW can have a 3rd row, but why would we EVER need it Unless, and this just dawned on me, unless he is planning to give the green light for TTC again---that'd be just peachy! Ha! I doubt it though. He wants to retire in the next 3-5 yrs and now says another pipsqueak would delay that *sigh* We'll see...

Happy Monday! Dreary and wet here---Mother Nature needs to let it be spring and bring on the sunshine!!

 

[lilesMom]

Hey Angel.
Hoping bigger car is a good sign
Sounds like he may be softening, Fx xxx
I'm a good bit better
Think my thyroid is to blame too
I'm minus half my eyebrows today.
Hate been that happens
Swab came back clear
So Doc said could hve been uti
Today is first day I feel a lot better
Hope,everyone is well xxx

 

[mommylov]

so glad to hear that swab came back normal Laura! Hope there are no more hic ups for you and you are on the fast road to recovery!

Angel, Thats so awesome that your DH might be opening up to the idea of another LO.....eeeek!

Bethany & Jess... lots of love to you ladies!

I think the meds are starting to hit me now so Ive been a bit out of it. It will all be worth it though when Im holding my sweet rainbow... a girl can dream right? lol

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, I caught up with your journal. I can't believe how close you are to your transfer. I also like Laura have difficult veins when it comes to taking blood. I was told that being even slightly dehydrated can make it difficult to find a vain. Glad things are moving forward so well with this ivf cycle. Hoping and praying by next month u will have a wonderful surprise (bfp!!!!)

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, glad that u are feeling better physically. I know things have been really tough hon. You're in my thoughts and I have hope that u will be blessed with another earth baby in the future.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, I take it your dh is getting on the same page as u about having another lo. Dh and I are also looking into an SUV with a 3rd row or Caravan. Things are already so cramped with 3 kids in the back of our SUV. Hope things are going good over there with your dh and Pierce.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Leslie. Just saw your update yesterday. The girls are doing amazing and they are so beautiful.