LilFooshFoosh
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Can you go away together for a little vacation? Just something to take your mind off it altogether and have a bit of fun?
When I finally broke down and started telling DH about all of my "symptoms" and everything, it felt good to get it out in the open and to share that with him. He gets just as excited and a couple of times he wanted to run out and get hpts. He makes me laugh and having him on the same page has really helped me not be so up and down about it. I think part of the problem before was that I felt stupid for getting my hopes up but seeing him do it too makes me feel better...justified....normal. I felt like I had to hide stuff before, to protect his feelings but he likes knowing and it takes some of the stress off me.
I don't know if that would help you but maybe.
When I finally broke down and started telling DH about all of my "symptoms" and everything, it felt good to get it out in the open and to share that with him. He gets just as excited and a couple of times he wanted to run out and get hpts. He makes me laugh and having him on the same page has really helped me not be so up and down about it. I think part of the problem before was that I felt stupid for getting my hopes up but seeing him do it too makes me feel better...justified....normal. I felt like I had to hide stuff before, to protect his feelings but he likes knowing and it takes some of the stress off me.
I don't know if that would help you but maybe.