mcwhmm
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Don't get me wrong, I love my husband like crazy and we have a great relationship, but ever since I got pregnant, he is so wishy washy. He doesn't understand what I am feeling is real. We don't have sex as much at all anymore because I am just simply not feeling it between being bloated and just exhausted. I have no desire for sex at all anymore. He takes this personally and gets mad and doesn't get it. I have explained to him that this will change and I want him to be there for me but he will be fine for a day and then back to being mad. Plus the last week especially I have been soo extremely tired that I could sleep all night and still sleep all day. He doesn't get this at all! Like today for example, I started classes, I'm taking 4 online classes along with working full time. My schedule worked out today to where I was off for the afternoon and so I worked on my classes to try to get ahead right form the get go to relieve some stress. Then I just wanted to relax and made supper and ate and just had a chill night watching tv. I ended up falling asleep and wake up to him slamming the bathroom door getting ready for work (he works third shift) it all wakes me up to the point where I am awake. He then storms out of the room and I come out of the room also due to DD crying from having a fever and waking up in sweat and he kisses me and then slams the door and leaves. I say I'm sorry for being so tired, which I feel like I shouldn't even have to apologize for anyways, and he just says "I'm fine." in a sarcastic manner.. Then he will say things like, "I don't have to kiss your feet and worship you just because your pregnant." and say "most pregnant people do this and most pregnant people do that." which I try to explain that every pregnancy is different! The thing that frustrates me so much though is that me being tired isn't all the issue. If I were to have sex with him before I fell asleep, he wouldn't have even been mad.. Sorry this is just a rant but I am so fed up and cry to him all the time about it but it's like talking to a brick wall!