Fuming. I am not a charity case!!

[AppleBlossom]

Good girl

 

[Natasha2605]

Good on You. She needs to learn not to rely on you so much! xx

 

[pinklightbulb]

Go you Well done for standing up for yourself!

 

[PeanutBean]

I'm glad you did it. It's extraordinarily kind of you to have been helping in the first place but equally extraordinary of her to ask. You two aren't wealthy. This isn't the 1940s and [for now] we have a state system to support her. Time to step back and think of you and your own. She sounds like no friend to you.

 

[leeanne]

You have a really good heart honey! But sometimes enough is enough and I am glad that you unplugged it!

 

[impatient1]

Glad to hear you unplugged it. You have a heart of gold to have done as much as you have.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

I have been at my mums today and OH rang me and said she said I didn't have the right to give something and take it away and then he heard her slagging us off to our other neighbour. I have to live there and I can see this getting nasty.
Xx

 

[v2007]

You have every right to take it away..its your electricity FFS.

So she is now slagging you off after all the times you have helped her.

Say nothing to the other neighbour and if the User starts tell her, you have your reasons and thats it.

V xxxx

 

[hopeandpray]

you are such a saint for helping her in the first place. you clearly have a very big heart and i'm sorry that she's taken advantage going back to your other thread about uni you are perfectly suited to nursing, so kind and caring and giving but know when a person needs to help themselves

 

[PeanutBean]

What a disgraceful and ungrateful way to behave. You need to be strong! You don't owe her anything. Is this council property? You could always let them know what's been going on.

 

[Serene123]

What? Tell her to apply for a crisis loan and if she gets denied then why should you help her when they don't.

She sounds evil!! And very ungrateful!!

 

[Hayley90]

I'd tell everyone who she bitches to just how bad she is.
See if they will plug her tv into their mains!! I bet they wouldn't, so she hasn't got a bloody leg to stand on, stupid selfish cow. Calling you selfish when you've gone well beyond what anyone else would (or should!) do for someone...eejit!

Better off ignoring people like that, shes a leech

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Thanks ladies. I really hope it doesn't turn into a prolonged fued
Xx

 

[AppleBlossom]

If I was that neighbour she was slagging you off to I would have just been nodding away but in my head have been thinking "What an ungrateful cow!" I doubt anyone will dislike you for sticking up for yourself after helping out someone who had been sponging off you

 

[moomin_troll]

what a tw*t!
if she gets nasty report her to the council and then if u have to the police as she cant expect u to pay for her electric and then get arsy when u say no. god im so angery for u

 

[kiwimama]

I wouldn't be giving her anything more. She obviously has come to accept that you are going to be her scapegoat everytime she gets into financial trouble, which seems to be far too often. Pop her a budgeting advice flyer or something in her letterbox, tell her sorry but you are having your own financial troubles at the moment and you can't afford to help her out anymore. And why is she hooking up her tv to your electricity? Tv is not an necessity!

 

[impatient1]

What an ungrateful woman, just shows you definately did the right thing in cutting her off.