Gender Specific Hopefuls

[Eleanor ace]

I'm so sorry for your loss pinkribbon

 

[lau86]

Just thought I would update... We miscarried out baby last Tuesday

Feel bloody awful for wishing for a girl now.

So sorry for your loss. It's not your fault x

 

[motherofboys]

huge hugs pink ribbon, sorry for your loss. Its not your fault.

 

[30mummyof1]

So sorry for your loss, don't feel bad for wishing for a girl

 

[geordiemammy]

Just thought I would update... We miscarried out baby last Tuesday

Feel bloody awful for wishing for a girl now.

I'm so sorry I felt the same when I miscarried but it's not cause of that so don't think it its a horrible experience that no woman should have to go through I lost 4 before I had Harvey that's why I came to the conclusion I can't carry girls I'm hear if you want to talk xx

 

[pinkribbon]

Just thought I would update... We miscarried out baby last Tuesday

Feel bloody awful for wishing for a girl now.

I'm so sorry I felt the same when I miscarried but it's not cause of that so don't think it its a horrible experience that no woman should have to go through I lost 4 before I had Harvey that's why I came to the conclusion I can't carry girls I'm hear if you want to talk xx

It did cross my mind that that was the reason I lost the baby too, although I have no logical reason for thinking that, it's my only loss... Suppose my mind is just playing tricks.

 

[geordiemammy]

That was the first thing to cross my mind after the first mc then after the second and 3rd I thought that must be the reason although doctors told me I was being stupid then after they done tests and nothing but my blood clotting thing came back i thought it again then when I miscarried number 4 and I was on the heparin I figured that must be the reason but it was comfirmed in my mind for sure once I found out Harvey was a boy even though I did nearly lose him to at 16 weeks!! These things sometimes just happen and when you want a particular sex it does make you feel a bit guilty but you shouldn't everyone who gets pregnant has a preference on what they would like whether it be their first or not i wanted a girl with every pregnancy but got 5 boys and like I say I'm sure I'll get a good few granddaughters down the line and I'll be able to have all the nice parts of having a girl with the ability to hand her back when the tantrums start xx

 

[pinkribbon]

Yeah Geordiemammy I think you are right everyone has preferences I think even slightly just people don't voice them for fear of being ungrateful. since I had DS1 I have felt that I'd only ever have boys and then my yellow bump turned blue with DS2. I'm with a new partner now and trying again but I still think it's gonna be another boy and I haven't conceived yet!

 

[geordiemammy]

You never know all my mc were with a new partner x

 

[pinkribbon]

My mc was with a new partner I hope that we don't have to experience it again

 

[geordiemammy]

I hope you don't either after my fourth mc I had gave up it was to hard to put myself through it emotionally or physically again but I fell pregnant 20 days after the 4th mc and Harvey came out of that xx

 

[pinkribbon]

I can imagine, Harvey is your little miracle

 

[rwhite]

Pinkribbon, so sorry for your loss love x

 

[WantingABubba]

So sorry for your loss hun xx

 

[proudparent88]

My EDD is May 29, 2014! This is my third I have two boys and I am really hoping for a girl because it will be my last because I always tend to have complications so my next appointment is on Monday December 30, 2013 and they will schedule my ultrasound that day I will go in and will be able to find out if the baby cooperates lol! Hoping for team

 

[pinkribbon]

Good luck proudparent! H&H pregnancy to you

 

[Kristeeny1]

Here is my update.... Well we had our ultrasound today and it appears we are team...






We are so excited! We wanted a girl since we already had a boy. I just hope they are right!

 

[motherofboys]

Congratulations!

Proud parent did you get your ultrasound yet?

I have renewed hope. Dh has said we can have another when we move, which at first I found discouraging as we didn't think we could move for another 4/5 years by which point he'll be 49/50 before we even ttc. (I'm 27, he is 45) but we might possibly be able to move the end of the year.
I still don't know for sure what's going to happen, but the fact it's not a definite no means I have hope but also time to adjust and get used to the possibility of no more, and see how I feel when we get there. I'm praying there will be something in the village in our price range with the right number of bedrooms by the time we can move.

 

[pinkribbon]

How many children do you have motherofboys?

OH and I have talked about having a 4th if 3rd is another boy, but it's different for him as he has no children of his own and I have 2 boys already. Just going to see how it goes but it's a possibility.

 

[motherofboys]

We have 4 boys, the youngest was born in October. The eldest will be 8 in 5 weeks time. We always planned 5/6 children no matter what gender we had, I just never really considered that we might get all one gender.
I think if we do have another, I will try swaying. I am grateful to have 4 healthy boys and did worry that a sway would raise my hopes and increase any disappointment I would feel at getting another boy. But I now feel that I need to give it that shot so I can say I tried and that this is just how it's supposed to be for us. I think it would bring a kind of closure.