amitootold
2 M/C, not ttc again
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Hi
First day on here. My first baby, I am 41 and 4+2 so very early days. Had a m/c in Sept 2009 and after tests last year, was told I had a 1% chance of conceiving naturally, 5% with IVF. We decided against IVF and accepted we would not have a family. In January, I decided I needed to lose weight, lost 21lbs and all of a sudden I'm preganant!!!
So many emotions, scared I will miscarry again, not sure how I feel about the pregnancy to be honest - as I had got used to the idea of not having a baby, worried about downs and birth defects. Would love to hear from any older mums to be.
First day on here. My first baby, I am 41 and 4+2 so very early days. Had a m/c in Sept 2009 and after tests last year, was told I had a 1% chance of conceiving naturally, 5% with IVF. We decided against IVF and accepted we would not have a family. In January, I decided I needed to lose weight, lost 21lbs and all of a sudden I'm preganant!!!
So many emotions, scared I will miscarry again, not sure how I feel about the pregnancy to be honest - as I had got used to the idea of not having a baby, worried about downs and birth defects. Would love to hear from any older mums to be.