patricia_b
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Hi all - im not sure if this is the right place to post this as im new to the site but would love some advice on a problem im having.
Ive been ttc for seven months now and been with my husband for 3 years.
The problem is that we had a normal love life before ttc but now that we are TTC his willingness to BD wether fertile or not has gradually diminished to the point its hard to catch the fertile window. Ive tried everything from lingere to dvds.
I asked if he is still as keen to have a baby as me and he insists he is and got a bit defensive saying he cant help it if he doesnt feel like BD as much now.
Its causing strife at a time when we need to be focussing on TTC and really getting me down.
Are any others here having this problem with a partner losing interest in BD?. If so what did you do to solve the problem? Im at my wits end with this. Im sure its ttc thats doing this as we were fine before then.
Ive been ttc for seven months now and been with my husband for 3 years.
The problem is that we had a normal love life before ttc but now that we are TTC his willingness to BD wether fertile or not has gradually diminished to the point its hard to catch the fertile window. Ive tried everything from lingere to dvds.
I asked if he is still as keen to have a baby as me and he insists he is and got a bit defensive saying he cant help it if he doesnt feel like BD as much now.
Its causing strife at a time when we need to be focussing on TTC and really getting me down.
Are any others here having this problem with a partner losing interest in BD?. If so what did you do to solve the problem? Im at my wits end with this. Im sure its ttc thats doing this as we were fine before then.