i dont have any fear of cars or known anyone killed in car accidents, its just my direction that puts me right off lol!
OH doesnt drive either, its hard work getting around but we manage it, buses, trains and taxis whichever 1 we get it is hard work but worth it as now DD loves them so much that she sees it as a fun adventure and so when baby 2 comes along even just a trip to the local shops in a taxi will be like a fun adventure for her and something i can easily manage on a bad day lol! shopping is a nightmare tho! not being able to choose your own fruit and meat etc is horrible, we do it all online, we started off with sainsburys and 6/10 the stuff they brought was good and what we would choose ourselves, but then we found Ocado and oh my gosh! im in love! getting a shopping delivery is like having an affair! nobody seems to understand my shopping habbits better than Mr Ocado lmao! everything is always perfecto! plus the drivers bring the bags into the kitchen!!
which saves me a lot of back ache lol!
i felt awful! made worse by the fact that both my mum and nan were there and had both been saying all morning that i was being too 'perfect' as a mum because i hadnt left DD anywere and forgot about her by accident or that i hadnt accidently dropped her or got fed up and left her with somebody else (i'd hate to know what my up bringing was when i was a baby since they think thats the norm!) and the fact that she could pronounce a lot of words really well, count to 10 and had some independence was me being a show off lol! so when that happened suddenly i was the worst ever because they had never heard any1 of not bringing spare clothes or nappies out! obv they were joking but at the time when i was so upset because i had done it, it was the worst thing they could of said! i dont worry about it now, i laugh because it was funny! DD was fine and didnt care so i dont stress over it lol! im sure il be forgetting much more when baby number 2 comes along! il probably forget to dress her or something lol! or il do the impossible and leave her feed at home! hahaha!! whoops i forgot to pack my boobies! lol! xx