Got the Christmas BFP, now waiting on the baby..August 2015 :)

[JandJPlus1]

Hey ladies.

 

[wonders10]

Mind if I join? I just got my BFP yesterday...have been lurking on your TWW thread

 

[deductivemom]

Mind if I join? I just got my BFP yesterday...have been lurking on your TWW thread

Welcome, wonders, and congrats!

Thanks for starting this jandj! Hoping to see lots of familiar faces - we have such a good group, and everyone is always so positive and caring. Looking forward to the support. I really like that you are willing to share your own concerns, jandj. After 2 chemicals, I just keep being sure I can't be this lucky and something will go wrong. And since I am taking progesterone supplements, I might not have clear symptoms of a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage so I have become a testing fiend. I just narrowly managed to resist the impulse to test tonight, even though my test was fine this morning and I got a good result on my blood test. Hoping you get those blood results ASAP! I know I couldn't stand the wait.

 

[MrsG09]

Congrats, JandJ! H&H 9 months to you!

 

[JandJPlus1]

Wonder, of course you can join! The more the merrier. I just figured that pregnancy is a tough time for most people and it's great to have people to share your concerns and your joys with. Deductive, I am like already anxious to get my results lol. No idea when that will happen though. everyone feel free to share about doctors visits and concerns, happy things, symptoms, ultrasounds, basically anything! We can keep this thread going all the way until the end and then share horrific birth stories and beautiful baby pictures haha.

 

[JandJPlus1]

Oh and wonder, we have the exact same due date.

 

[JandJPlus1]

And this will also be my rainbow baby!

 

[Fit_Mama2Be]

Congratulatios!! I think I'm due in August too (though I still need to have this confirmed by a doctor).

 

[abydix]

hey ladies hope every one's doing great

 

[JandJPlus1]

So I'm a little nervous. I have to go to my mother in laws today. I wouldn't normally worry but we want to tell her. This scares me for three reasons. 1. She is notorious for not keeping things to herself. 2. She was one of the last people we told before the miscarriage. And 3. She is a registered Reiki person and she just has this way of sensing things so I feel like even if we don't tell her she will know!

 

[amandadchan]

Hi Jandj...my due date is Aug 21st as well and I found out seven days ago just one day before u!!! That's really awesome, didn't think I would have so much in common with someone but now I know what we were both thinking around the sane time my progression is looking good so far todays test was pretty dark at 15dpo.. a little history about me : I've had three MCs in the past seven months so finally I got a referal, they said no sex buutt oooppps :/ and two weeks later I got pg. I went to the hospital five days ago and they didn't take me seriously. The test came back - so she comes in telling me in not pg and do what they say( the no sex order) so they can help me. I told her my doc told me from last time the clinic test are less sensitive..she rolls her eyes at me and said no its the other way around. I told her I still think I'm pg and she said no ur not check up in the office in a MONTH!!! I knew I was!!! And I went to the hospital BC I haven't talk to a specialist yet and knew I might need some progesterone or something. I asked her if I can get some prescribed anyways and she said no and I asked if I should atleast take baby aspirin and she said no to both!! I left confused, not taken seriously, and hurt BC I felt like they didn't care about my baby or my feelings beening as I've had an emotional seven months. Well I'd like I go back to her specifically so she HAS to tell me I am indeed pg. I bet she would hate to say it even tho its such a blessing to me. So a little up to date on everything. I decided to take baby aspirin anyways and looked for progesterone myself and for some reason the pharmacies around do not have any without a prescription so I'm just taking baby aspirin, vitamin b-complex with vitamin c in it and my prenatal. I'm hoping the extra vitamins and baby aspirin will make a difference this time since they won't take me seriously. I keep trying everyday to get an appt for the specialist but i never get a call back. I'm doing good so far and test are getting darker each day so that's good. The other times I would of had spotting/ bleeding/ and bad cramps all ready and mcs happen the day of my period and so far no bleeding but I've had weird cramps last night and it woke me up. I have Pain on my right side as well when I press on it. I'm hoping all is well. Just praying for this baby to make its way into the world Aug. 2015. Blessings to all!!! Oh yeah and happy happy holidays!!!!

 

[JandJPlus1]

If you have pain on your right side only you need to go to the hospital soon and demand an ultrasound because I know that ectopic pregnancies can cause one sided pain. Not saying that that is what it is, just a heads up. I'm so happy to have so many girls due around the same time as me. So far this pregnancy has been going good for me. I have really strong symptoms even though I'm only four weeks so that makes me hopeful. I am choosing to just stay optimistic because really if a miscarriage is going to happen again, there is nothing I can do about it.

 

[amandadchan]

You are right if its going to happen it will.. I guess u read before I re-edited and put my test up lol..I just wanted to let u know to not be so nervous today it will be OK and will work out for u!! I have had symptoms before I got my bfp and I know exactly what u mean its so reassuring to feel pg as well being pg. I'll keep everyone updated, I'm a nervous wreck today with the cramps I haven't had one in four hours.

 

[Sass827]

Hey loves! Rainbow for me too so feeling extra nervous. J- if your mil is a friend, let her know. If she's a foe, don't tell her. If you do tell, just stress how freaked you are so she doesn't spill the beans.
My mil is a monster so I won't even let her know we're trying. I buy this wine called fre. It has the alcohol removed so I drink like a lush in front of her just to stress how "not trying" we are.

 

[Sass827]

Amanda- your tests look so good. Way better than my progression. I'm still really light which is freaking me out. Try to relax and take those vitamins. Eat well and sleep often. And if the cramps get bad, roll into an er and say you think your uterus is exploding or something rash so they scan you. Or at least do your bloods.

 

[abydix]

So I'm a little nervous. I have to go to my mother in laws today. I wouldn't normally worry but we want to tell her. This scares me for three reasons. 1. She is notorious for not keeping things to herself. 2. She was one of the last people we told before the miscarriage. And 3. She is a registered Reiki person and she just has this way of sensing things so I feel like even if we don't tell her she will know!

i know what you mean. hubby wants us keeping the news to ourselves for now

 

[hopeful_ttc]

Hi ladies!! So glad we are all here! I found out on Thursday went to doc the same day... She messaged me on facebook to let me know the urine test was positive and my numbers look great! It's a relief

I had a scare this morning. I was woken up to a strong feeling of having to go #2 (tmi) when I went and I wiped there was red blood. I made sure it wasn't coming from my lady bits. And it wasn't. I'm thinking possible hemmroid!? This early?? I've had bleeding from my nose alrwady. And mouth. So nothing surprises me.
Hoping things stay this way! Happy and healthy nine months to us all!

 

[JandJPlus1]

Hopeful, it's a popped tiny blood vessel in your bum haha. I had the exact same thing two days after I found out and freaked right out. I asked the doctor and he said it was too little blood for a hemmoroid he said I would have freaked out way harder if it was a popped hemmoroid. Apparently they let out quite a bit of blood. But he said that at this stage in pregnancy all of your little tiny blood vessels get swollen a little and are very easy to pop!

 

[JandJPlus1]

Also, want to know something kind of funny about my due date. It's two days after my birthday and I told my husband that I am positive that the baby is going to come early just so I can have the best/worst birthday present ever.

 

[JandJPlus1]

Okay, wonders, how did you get it to say Cautiously Expecting #1 !?