CoralInGold
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We decided to tell MIL today, we wanted to tell her on Mother's Day, but she's going on Holiday on Tuesday. We made a little visit to Next & bought the cutest sleep suit with 'I'm new to the world' on, & put it in a little bag for her to open. We were both so excited to tell her.
She opened it, hugged us but then said "Well I suppose there's worse things that can happen".
What!?
I let it go thinking she'd said it out of nerves or shock maybe, but then, she said it again.
She was focusing on the negatives of it all, because we are in the process of buying a house & OH has a lot on at work at the moment, she kept saying "You've just got so much on".
I know I'm a ball of emotions at the moment but I can't help but feel like she isn't happy & it was just awful.
Yes it has come at a difficult time but who is ever totally ready for children? There's always something. Little does she know we tried for nearly 12 months & we feel so lucky & blessed it's finally happened.
She opened it, hugged us but then said "Well I suppose there's worse things that can happen".
What!?
I let it go thinking she'd said it out of nerves or shock maybe, but then, she said it again.
She was focusing on the negatives of it all, because we are in the process of buying a house & OH has a lot on at work at the moment, she kept saying "You've just got so much on".
I know I'm a ball of emotions at the moment but I can't help but feel like she isn't happy & it was just awful.
Yes it has come at a difficult time but who is ever totally ready for children? There's always something. Little does she know we tried for nearly 12 months & we feel so lucky & blessed it's finally happened.