Had 12 week scan today, guessing a boy based on nub theory

I'm about to have my 3rd boy, took it much harder this time then I did when I found out I was having my 2nd boy only because this is out absolute last bub hubby will be getting the snip so knowing ill never have a daughter is so hard to deal with. I'm not disappointed that I'm having another son just that there's no more chances for a daughter and that's really sad for me. So I do understand how you're feeling and it's normal.
Big two boys are heaps of fun though and mine are best buddies

 

I've got 4 boys and tbh it wasn't until after the 3rd that I started to think I might not actually get a girl. Now, although the is 1 more baby in my future, and I plan to sway, I have to say I'm pretty certain I wont be getting a girl.

 

Just had my 4th boy 7.5 weeks ago and planning on starting to try right away I want my girl and I'm not getting any younger and I just had my last 2 boys in 2013 all my boys are cesarean so I'm hoping once I get pregnant it will be a girl so I can just enjoy my family if not I think going to cry a lot

 

I've never tried to sway before I didn't really hear about it until I was already pregnant with my 4th, but I was charting and know that number 3 had 'girl timing'.

 

My other 2 older ones are with my ex so I see them but not as often as I would want and the other 2 are now 1year and almost 2 months old so I know they will have a close relationship

 

My smallest gap is 20 months, between the eldest 2. The eldest will be 8 on Wednesday, ds2 turned 6 in october, ds3 will be 4 in 4 weeks and ds4 arrived in October. Its taken longer each time to fall, our 4th took 2.5 years. So I don't want to wait, but DH wants to move house first.

 

I wouldn't wait if it took 2.5 years is start asap

 

I understand his reasons for wanting to wait, but if it takes that long again, we'd have moved house and stuff anyway.

 

Have u talked to him maybe u can get him to change his mind. What kind of birth control are u using ?

 

Just condoms atm He is pretty set about moving first, but the time frame for moving doesn't fit well with the TTC. So I'm trying to push to move this year at some point and got to hope it all falls into place timing wise. Or hope he changes his mind.

 

I would just try to convince him it doesn't matter really if ur pregnant while u move I just did that

 

I know it probably sounds like I'm over thinking things but because of school we want to stay in the village as I don't drive and would rather not change their school. We planned to be here 6 months that was almost 7 years ago lol things rarely come up in the village that are the right size and price so chances of something coming when I want it to are low which is why he wants to move first. I know realistically it's for the best and we can't for another person in here, but I keep thinking well if we move this and do this we could squeeze one more lol

 

I'm with u plus if it takes longer which I hope it doesn't at least u started early

 

We've started reorganizing some things in the house and he said the other day that it would 'buy us a couple more years before moving' so he really isn't seeing the urgency. We need to move soon to get a baby in quick because although men can continue to have babies later than women I don't want him to be in his 50s, his 45 now and also after a certain age the quality of sperm starts to drop.

 

U should bring that up to him I told dh I won't wait because of my age and he doesn't want to wait either

 

I don't like to, he kept blaming himself and his age for it taking longer last time. If we had more room he'd try now, so I feel bad for pressuring him when he is trying to be sensible.

 

It can be a hard situation