Had a dream my baby did not recognize me, help it was awful

Arisa

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So in my dream my baby was about six months old and I was all better (recovered properly from Section, pre eclampsia had officially gone, body back to normal etc) and my girl Summer who did not look like summer but anyway was sitting in her pram in the middle of town in a city carpark with my mother pushing her, I ran up to her and went to pick her up and she cried so I put her back down then she pointed to my mother and said "mama" :cry::cry:
I am terrified this is some sort of premonition because I am not able to look after my baby girl properly. My husband and parents do the bulk of the work right now but I am trying my best and do cuddle and sing to her and feed and change her when I can but this is my worry that she will not recognize me, even though I carried her for nine months:cry:
 
Awww...I'm so sorry, what a nerve-wracking dream!
However, do not worry. You are mom, and nobody will ever overshadow you.
My mom ran a daycare for 25 years. There were some moms who dropped their baby off by 8am and didn't pick them up until 6pm. With sleeping at night, you figure the baby really only saw their mother a few short hours each day. But they absolutely knew who their mom was, and their eyes would light up when they saw her.
The only way your baby would ever forget you would be if you were away from her 24/7 for a couple weeks. And even at that, look at babies who have been in foster care and then adopted...they quickly learn who mom is.
Even if you only get to spend a couple hours per day with your little girl, don't worry: she'll never forget you're mom.
 
Thats horrible honey, dont pay too much heed to the dream though.
Where in New Zealand are you....BOP here.
 

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