allforthegirl
Mom of 5 boys
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I had such strong strong feelings that this baby was a girl. Never felt so strongly that it would be either gender. I just had a feeling with my last that it was a boy, but this one...... I was so sure that I was even putting some clothing on hold that were being sold in my area.
When we went for our last u/s I saw the nub, I was just under 17 weeks by EDD LMP. I wasn't sure if it was too early or not so I asked, and she said right away she knew what baby was. I didn't cry there but I got home and was completely devastated. I was angry at myself, angry at all those that told me they saw my little girl, or said that they could tell I was getting what I wanted. Even before we got pg I was seeing this little girls soul around. I am a very spiritual person. I have always thought since I was very young that I was meant to raise a daughter. I finally thought that this was my chance. I was honestly done having children until so many things came into place, it almost seemed silly to have so many messages come forth from our angels not to go for it.
This is #5 and I cannot have another. I don't think I am going to handle the stress level as it is with 5 boys running around. There is no way I would chance it again just to be put through disappointment of not having that little girl I thought was mine. Never will that happen now and that is very hard to swallow.
I am very angry! I seriously want to punch all those that told me anything to do with this child. Even my angels! For showing me her, for what? For giving me another boy when I told them I was happy with my boys and the only thing missing was my girl? This part of my faith is shot. I will always and forever pine over her. If this was something my soul needed to go through well I am not sure if my soul will heal before moving on to the next.
I have been even just so I can move on a bit tried some what convincing myself that maybe just maybe they were wrong. That in two weeks they will in fact tell me they were wrong and my little girl is actually with me..... But I am trying my hardest not to go too far with this. I really believe that I will just hurt myself more.....
I am jealous hearing about others finding out they are having a girl. My heart breaks everything I see a little baby girl smile. How am I to get over this so I can go on loving this little man? I am really really struggling with this. It is like getting to the end of a pg and not being able to hold that child in your arms, nurse it, love it the way you wanted to. Why does this have to happen to anyone?
When we went for our last u/s I saw the nub, I was just under 17 weeks by EDD LMP. I wasn't sure if it was too early or not so I asked, and she said right away she knew what baby was. I didn't cry there but I got home and was completely devastated. I was angry at myself, angry at all those that told me they saw my little girl, or said that they could tell I was getting what I wanted. Even before we got pg I was seeing this little girls soul around. I am a very spiritual person. I have always thought since I was very young that I was meant to raise a daughter. I finally thought that this was my chance. I was honestly done having children until so many things came into place, it almost seemed silly to have so many messages come forth from our angels not to go for it.
This is #5 and I cannot have another. I don't think I am going to handle the stress level as it is with 5 boys running around. There is no way I would chance it again just to be put through disappointment of not having that little girl I thought was mine. Never will that happen now and that is very hard to swallow.
I am very angry! I seriously want to punch all those that told me anything to do with this child. Even my angels! For showing me her, for what? For giving me another boy when I told them I was happy with my boys and the only thing missing was my girl? This part of my faith is shot. I will always and forever pine over her. If this was something my soul needed to go through well I am not sure if my soul will heal before moving on to the next.
I have been even just so I can move on a bit tried some what convincing myself that maybe just maybe they were wrong. That in two weeks they will in fact tell me they were wrong and my little girl is actually with me..... But I am trying my hardest not to go too far with this. I really believe that I will just hurt myself more.....
I am jealous hearing about others finding out they are having a girl. My heart breaks everything I see a little baby girl smile. How am I to get over this so I can go on loving this little man? I am really really struggling with this. It is like getting to the end of a pg and not being able to hold that child in your arms, nurse it, love it the way you wanted to. Why does this have to happen to anyone?